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Finds for Fridays: January 27

2012-01-27T06:00:00.000-05:00

Finds for Fridays is my way of sharing some of the wonderful blogs posts I read each week. I am currently following close to 100 blogs and at least scan them as much as I can. Each week, I'll note and "set aside" some posts that especially speak to me for whatever reason. And each Friday that I am able, I'll share them with you. I hope you'll stop by and read the posts, and maybe even follow the blogs if you aren't already. A win-win, right?

And here they are!

White Knuckled Praying by Patty Wysong at Patterings (about how sin is like snow and ice)

Our Compass by Kristi Huseby at Broken and Redeemed (about trusting God rather than our feelings)

Your Writing Career, A Pencil in God's Hand, Part 1 by April Gardner at Reflections in Hindsight (about God's control and immenseness)

When Everything Stalls by Sandra Heska King at ACFW blog (about goals and life and stalling)

Hope you enjoy these posts - maybe even learn from them! I know I did.

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Guest Post - Good from the Dark - God Is So Good

2012-01-25T06:00:00.000-05:00

Welcome to my Wednesday feature God is So Good. Here I will share stories - true and fiction, mine and others' - of the Lord's presence in the midst of trials, struggles, and difficulties.

In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world. John 16:33b

Amy Michelle Wiley is an amazing young woman with incredible gifts in writing, encouraging, and so many other areas. I am privileged to call her a dear friend. She has several health struggles, and God has worked through them. This, however, is a struggle I was unaware of. And when I saw this post on the Jewels of Encouragement blog, I couldn't resist asking her if I can repost.

Good from the Dark

by Amy Michelle Wiley

During my early twenties, my happy-go-lucky, optimistic personality took a sudden dive. For unknown reasons, my brain snagged on germs and I plunged into a nightmare of OCD with an obsession of germs and a compulsion of cleaning. Within a few short months I was almost non-functional, spending hours in the bathroom showering, changing clothes, and cleaning. I freaked out over even the most minor of cross contaminations, tracking anything that touched something that might have brushed against something that was “dirty.” My hands were raw and bleeding from so much washing. Guilt overwhelmed me as I was convinced it was my responsibility to take care of anything around me that might possibly be contaminated. I no longer found any enjoyment in life.

My previously close and supportive family relationships were strained almost to the point of breaking. I knew in my head that the risk of illness from germs was better than the torment I was putting myself and my loved ones through, but I couldn’t escape the obsession. Nothing helped and things were so bad my family was almost considering bringing me to the mental hospital.

On the surface it seemed as though it could have been a spiritual problem, yet it wasn’t—it was very much physical (though that’s not to say all of my emotional outbursts were free of sin). Medical tests showed that my brain chemicals and hormones were severely out of balance. A friend summed up the spiritual aspect well when she told me, “Amy, never let anyone tell you that your anxiety is because of a lack of faith. What those people don’t realize is that it takes us more faith to get through five minutes than most people have to use in a week.”

After being put on a medication, I slowly pulled out of it. Today I am more aware of germs than I was previously, but I am no longer controlled by them. I know I’m blessed to have had anxiety for such a short time—many people struggle with it their whole lives.

I look back on that time as the worst in my life. Hopefully it will remain so. There’s something truly horrible about loosing every bit of your self worth and about a loss of control over your own self. Yet it’s even dark times like that which God refers to in the verse, “In all things, give thanks.” (1 Thes 5:18)

How do I give thanks for a time so damaging to myself and my family? Is that the type of trial James talks about when it says to “count it all joy”? (James 1:2)

I think it is. It’s not that we should be glad for the horrible times, but we can have joy because God has promised that “all things work together for His good, for those who love God and are called according to His purpose.” (Rom 8:28)

We may never know what good is being brought out of our trials, but other times God gives us a little glimpse of it. In my case, He’s shown me several ways. I have at least two friends who struggle with agoraphobia. I know I’ve been instrumental in both of their lives in supporting them as they find the courage to step back into society where they, in turn, can be lights. I don’t think I could have had that empathy or been able to give that type of support if I’d never experienced anxiety or depression before.

A few years ago, we discovered that my young niece also has anxiety issues. We believe she has Asperger’s and possibly OCD. I think my family is far better equipped to be able to handle and understand her reactions and behaviors, because of what they’ve been through with me.

God can and does bring good out of even the worst and most hopeless of times. Whatever that valley is for you, hold onto the knowledge that God will still use you—and specifically that experience—to bring glory to Himself and to help others.

In order to truly help and support each other to make it through and find the goodness, it has to be two-sided. If you are in the hard times, you have to be transparent enough to let others help you carry the burden. Likewise, you have to be the type of person who others can trust enough to open up and confide in.

Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything. (James 1:2-4 NIV)

On the other side of that experience I am even more thankful and aware of the blessing it is to find joy in life. I pray that each of you can also experience the fullness of joy we find in living for Christ our Savior.
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Amy Michelle Wiley is a lover of words and people, and of languages and cultures. These passions have led to her becoming a professional sign language interpreter at her church and a community college and a freelance author. Amy dabbles in all writing genres, but especially loves fiction, believing God can use it to touch people's hearts in a special way. She's had many short stories and articles published and is looking for a book publisher for her young adult novel, Reaching Sky, and writing a suspense novel, Voices of the Dark. Amy's online nickname, Sparrow, is a reminder from Matthew 10:29-31 that God cares about each tiny detail of her life. She lives in the beautiful Pacific Northwest and though she is disabled and daily faces physical struggles, she's learning that joy is a choice. Check out her website at www.sparrowsflight.com.

Do you have a story you'd like to share about God's goodness in your struggles? Drop me an email and we can talk!

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Only Wondrous

2012-01-23T06:00:00.000-05:00

Blessed be the Lord God, the God of Israel,
who only does wondrous things! Psalm 72:18 NKJ

from this...

This has not been a typical winter. Weather has been anything but steady. Snow one day, and 50 degrees (or close to it) the next. It has, in a way, made me more appreciative of the different seasons (even when they're happening in the same week!).

When I look outside and see the beauty of God's creation - whether it's grass peeking through the snow, or snow peeking through the grass - I often pause in wonder. When I think about the incredible family the Lord has provided for me, I am again full of wonder. And, when I think of the amazing gifts He has given me, I am blown away by how wondrous they are - and He is.

But those are not the only times I should be moved by the wonder of my Lord.

to this!

Look at the verse I referenced above. Closely. The Lord only does wondrous things. Nothing God does is ordinary. Everything about Him is full of wonder. We should be in awe about everything our Lord does- whether it benefits us or not, because it is awesome, and wondrous, and part of His plan.

It's hard to think of, say, a brain tumor, a rejection slip, a death, a natural disaster, or a prodigal as a reason to bless the Lord. But that's exactly what this verse in psalms is asking us to do. Even the tough stuff is wondrous, because, if we look at it through God's eyes, we will know that He will make it all work out in His good, perfect, eternal plan.

No matter how difficult it may be, God can be trusted, and we (and our circumstances) are in His hands.

And if that isn't wonderful, I don't know what is.

Heavenly Father, I often think of wondrous as good for me and my selfish desires, but EVERYTHING You do is wondrous. Help me to see the things that cause us struggles and trials as wondrous, and part of Your plan. Because, Lord, I know this is true. In Your Son's precious name I pray. Amen.

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Do you find it difficult to think of trials and struggles as "wondrous?" How do you "bless the Lord" when things don't seem to be going your way? Come join me at Living By Grace on Facebook and we can chat!

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Finds for Fridays: January 20

2012-01-20T06:00:00.000-05:00

Finds for Fridays is my way of sharing some of the wonderful blogs posts I read each week. I am currently following close to 100 blogs and at least scan them as much as I can. Each week, I'll note and "set aside" some posts that especially speak to me for whatever reason. And each Friday that I am able, I'll share them with you. I hope you'll stop by and read the posts, and maybe even follow the blogs if you aren't already. A win-win, right?

And here they are!

The Whole Town Went to Meet Jesus by Arlen Yoder at Arlen's Living Water Springs (about the "buzz" about Jesus)

Door of No Words by Pat Guy at Pat's Porch (about Jesus and a child)

I Have a Dream Today by Rebecca Boschee at WordServe Water Cooler (about a familiar speech and writing tips you can learn from it)

The Melt Down by Nancy K. Sullivan at Jewels of Encouragement (about our reaction to God's protection of us)

Thoughtful About...Waiting on Promises by Roseanna White at Writing Roseanna (about God's faithfulness)

Failing Forward: A Guest Blog by Alton Gansky at Chip MacGregor's blog (about learning from failure)

Hope you enjoy these posts - I know I did.

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As Of Late: January (and a couple places to stop by!)

2012-01-19T06:00:00.000-05:00

Today appears to be my "off-site" posting day. Not only am I at the Internet Cafe, talking about whether I should "Change or Wait," I also have a post at probably my very favorite group blog, Jewels of Encouragement. I talk there about how well I'm doing as an image-bearer of my Lord. Considering the title of the post is Funhouse Mirror, I'm guessing you know where I'm going with it ;). Hope you stop by both places!

And yeah, I STILL want you to stay here and read this post, cuz it's time for As of Late! My dear, amazing friend Christy hosts this monthly meme (rhymes with cream) on the third Thursday of each month (and she has a new button for it this month. Pretty, eh?). It's a great way to look back and contemplate how things have been for you lately.

So, after you read MY post, be sure to stop by Critty Joy and read hers and the other participants' (they're generally VERY quick reads) - and join in yourself if you want!

And heeerree I go!

Lately, I've been wondering if God wants me to be a novelist.

Lately, I've been debating what to do with a certain frustration. And I still don't know.

Lately, kid car races have been on my mind.

Lately, "winter weather" has no meaning.

Lately, I've enjoyed learning more about writing.

Lately, I've appreciated several of my online BFFs more than ever.

Lately, I've been really looking forward to next month's Margie Lawson class and enjoying this book.

Lately, I've been trying to reign in my jealousy and self-centeredness.

Lately, most who know me would probably say I'm doing well on the "as of late" above. But they'd be wrong.

Lately, my "out of the house" schedule has been lighter than usual. And I like it.

Lately, I've had lots of irons in the fire.

Lately, I've been loving our new mattress (10 inches of memory foam. What's not to love??)

So, what have YOU been doing as of late?

Stop by Critty Joy for more As Of Late

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Feathers and Fluff - God Is So Good

2012-01-18T06:00:00.000-05:00

Welcome to my Wednesday feature God is So Good. Here I will share stories - true and fiction, mine and others' - of the Lord's presence in the midst of trials, struggles, and difficulties.

In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world. John 16:33b

Sometimes, it's the little things that make such a huge difference. I have discovered, remarkably, that I find it easier to trust the Lord when things are terrible than when something minor isn't just right. Yet, God is good, and present, in every situation, whether big or small. And, I think, we're much more likely to forget to give Him the credit when it's something minor. Like this one day...

Almost exactly a year ago, I wasn't the cheery, optimistic person many of you know me to be - at least on this one particular day. It had been a lousy morning. I was anticipating some pretty bad news. What news? I have no idea anymore (so it obviously wasn't anything life-changing). The kids had been grumpy. The internet was slow. I was a grouch. I was depressed.

I headed to my son's fourth grade class to help the kids edit/proofread some "Snowman stories" they had written. This was my favorite volunteer "job." But still, thinking about it scarcely lightened my mood.

But then I walked in the room, and Mrs. Maxted handed me something. She had no idea it was just the "feathers and fluff" that I needed on this grumpy day.

This pen had been HAND-MADE for me - "Editor Sher" as Mrs. Maxted always called me. How could I NOT smile when I looked at it? Held it? Used it? (and how could my editing POSSIBLY be too harsh for these 9- and 10-year olds when they received it with feathers waving in their faces?)

I used that pen for months, and every time, it brought a grin to my face. Mrs. Maxted - and the Lord - helped me get out of my silly funk. He is SO good!

Do you have a story you'd like to share about God's goodness in your struggles? Drop me an email and we can talk!

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Why Am I Like This?

2012-01-16T06:00:00.000-05:00

...She said, "If all is well, why am I like this?...|” Genesis 25:22(NKJ)

God has it all under control.

You know that, right? Nothing happens without being sifted through His fingers. He may not like all that happens, but He allows it. It is all for His glory. All of it.

In God's view all is - or at least will be - well. And we have no reason to worry or fret.

But still we do. Or at least I do. I can't count the number of times I have sat in the midst of my life and fretted. Asked why. Worried about the future. Wondered what in the %&#@ (pardon my French) God was doing.

Rebecca, wife of Isaac and mother of Jacob and Esau, did it too. I was reading through Genesis 25 just a few days ago, and I noticed my own heart's cry on several occasions there on the page - from the mouth of one of the matriarchs.

Let me set the scene. Rebecca had been married to Isaac for twenty years, and they were childless. Isaac pleaded to God for her, and she conceived. I'm certain she was thrilled with this. But everything wasn't ideal during this pregnancy.

But the children struggled together within her; and she said, “If all is well, why am I like this?”... Genesis 25:22

Lord, if you gave me this writing gift, why am I so frustrated?

If my husband's health issues are in Your perfect plan, why is it so stressful and hard on all of us?

If You trusted me to raise my children, why do they lead me to tears and grey hairs?

If all is well, Lord, why am I like this?

Sometimes, it takes a very long time to get the answer to that question. Sometimes He gives me a small glimpse of His reasoning - through the blessings that come out in my trials, or my spiritual growth because of my difficulties. On occasion, it's my sin. Other times, I'm sure I won't find out this side of heaven.

But every once in a while, I hear an answer whispered in my ear. It's not always the same, but the essence is this: "It's not all about YOU, Jo."

God didn't put me here on earth to be happy and comfortable. I am not the center of the universe. His eternal plan includes a lot more than just my life. Sometimes, I am "like this" for the benefit of another, of the big picture.

And because I trust God, SOMETIMES, that has to be - should be - enough.

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How hard is it for you to trust Him? Have you ever felt like Rebecca? Has God given you hints for why you are "like this?" Come join me at Living By Grace on Facebook and we can chat.

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Finds for Fridays: January 13

2012-01-13T06:00:00.000-05:00

Finds for Fridays is my way of sharing some of the wonderful blogs posts I read each week. I am currently following close to 100 blogs and at least scan them as much as I can. Each week, I'll note and "set aside" some posts that especially speak to me for whatever reason. And each Friday that I am able, I'll share them with you. I hope you'll stop by and read the posts, and maybe even follow the blogs if you aren't already. A win-win, right?

And here they are!

Feeling the Pain by Lynda Schultz at Grains of Sand (about God's pain in our sin)

Simple Thoughts About Fair Use by Seth Godin at his blog (about copyright and such - stuff you should know)

Slay Your Dragons Before Breakfast by Michael Hyatt at his blog (about keeping on top of lethargy of every kind)

You Are The Decisive Element by Nikki Turner at In Truer Ink (about the influence we have)

Hope you enjoy these posts. MUCH wisdom here - trust me! Have a great weekend!

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They Brought A Carseat - God Is So Good

2012-01-11T06:00:00.000-05:00

Welcome to my Wednesday feature God is So Good. Here I will share stories - true and fiction, mine and others' - of the Lord's presence in the midst of trials, struggles, and difficulties.

In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world. John 16:33b

I'm an optimist. If you don't know that about me yet, it won't take long for you to figure out. I see the silver lining on every cloud (or almost every one, anyhow). I've been called "annoyingly optimistic." God made me this way. It's not that I don't get frustrated, or mad, orweary. I just seem to have an uncanny way of spotting the blessings in trials. Like this one day, at the very beginning of my husband's health struggles...

It had been a very tough week. My husband Marc had been experiencing a migraine for several days, with no relief, other than a brief reprieve thanks to a shot of medication at a doctor's visit a couple days before. And now it was Friday.

A weekend of excruciating pain didn't sound fun, so we went back to the doc again, hoping for some help. Of course, we brought our 2 1/2 year old Andrew along, since there was nowhere to leave him. Oh - and did I mention I was six months pregnant at the time?

ANYhow, the doc recommended we go to the ER for a CAT scan. So my aching husband, my squirrely toddler, and prego me got in the car and headed over there. NOT my favorite outing ever. Of course we waited (that's why they call it the waiting room, right?), and I got the presence of mind to call church and ask for prayer.

We got in the exam room. And waited some more. Andrew tried to climb my husband's legs and got whiny. He started playing with implements that are NOT meant as playthings. He got clingy. And bored. And even more bored.

We got a quick change of scenery when Marc went for the CAT scan, as we went into that waiting room. But still, Andrew was NOT happy. I began to wonder how much my unhappy son (and his hormone-crazed mother) could take. (Not to mention my poor husband with the migraine!)

And that's when an orderly came in. "Your pastor and his wife are here. Can they come in?"

Oh yeah. And the best part? They didn't just pray. THEY BROUGHT A CARSEAT. They gave the two of us a reprieve from a hyper, energetic, bored boy and allowed us to focus on one another, and what the doctor was going to tell us.

I didn't ask them to come, but they did. I didn't ask that they take Andrew with them and watch him while we dealt with this. But they did. They listened to our request, saw what they could do, and made a HUGE difference. God used them to help us. He is SO good.

Do you have a story you'd like to share about God's goodness in your struggles? Drop me an email and we can talk!

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You're Already Enlisted

2012-01-09T06:00:00.000-05:00

I'm at The Barn Door today, talking about some of the stuff I've learned about snow clothing and kids since I moved from sunny California to...um...West Michigan. Come check out my lessons, and epiphanies, in Snow/Winter Clothing Rules.

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The U.S. military is currently a volunteer organization. But it hasn't always been that way. Most people reading this blog, I would wager, have never been drafted into the Army, Navy, Air Force, Marines, or any other branch I'm not remembering.

There hasn't been a military draft in the U.S. since 1973, when I was still in elementary school. I know my uncle was drafted into Vietnam when I was very small, and many protested during that time, upset (probably too mild a word) that they were forced to fight.

But there's another war, and another army, that does NOT take volunteers.

(Not my kids, by the way)
As Russ Molag, my adult Sunday School teacher said just yesterday, "God isn't looking for volunteers in His army - He's already enlisted you!" When you become His child, you're automatically a member of His fighting force.

You don't need to decide IF you are in His army. All you need to conclude is whether you will be a dedicated fighter to the spiritual war that rages.

For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places. Ephesians 6:12

Are you sitting on the sidelines, ignoring the arrows that fly about you? Can God depend on you to put on His armor and quench the fiery darts that fly from those principalities and powers on the devil's side?

You're already in the army. If you want to please Him, you need be a good soldier for Him.

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Let's talk about this! Be sure to stop by Living by Grace to join the discussion.

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Finds for Fridays: January 6

2012-01-06T06:00:00.000-05:00

Finds for Fridays is my way of sharing some of the wonderful blogs posts I read each week. I am currently following close to 100 blogs and at least scan them as much as I can. Each week, I'll note and "set aside" some posts that especially speak to me for whatever reason. And each Friday that I am able, I'll share them with you. I hope you'll stop by and read the posts, and maybe even follow the blogs if you aren't already. A win-win, right?

And here they are!

Standing on the Crux of Eve by Wanda at The Watered Soul (about the just before)

If It Be Your Will by Joy Bach at Life Moments (about the faith to trust His will)

Do You Need a Leader? By Sheila Gregoire at Internet Cafe Devotions (on sharing control with your spouse - and God)

New Years with the Devil by Billy Coffey at What I Learned Today (about hope and being ordinary)

Stick To It! By Jennifer Slattery at Words That Keep (about writing and persistence)

The Gift of Delight by Kristen Schiffman at On Talk 21 (about joy in the "middle moments")

Hope you'll stop by these blogs and give them a read. Much to bless you here!

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God Is So Good: Crystal Clear

2012-01-04T06:00:00.000-05:00

Welcome to my first post of my new Wednesday feature. Here I will share stories - true and fiction, mine and others' - of the Lord's presence in the midst of trials, struggles, and difficulties.

In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world. John 16:33b

Many of you know my family has certainly been through trials, and that God has been faithful. I am hoping sharing some of these incidents with you, along with others in my life and my friends', will encourage you through your own struggles.

I thought I would start this series with a bit of fiction - probably one of my favorites FaithWriters Writing Challenge pieces - and one of my first. I hope it encourages you.

CRYSTAL CLEAR
by Joanne Sher

The artistry of a sunset, with its deep reds, oranges and yellows, used to be my sustenance.

When I was depressed, I would go to the pond in my back yard and marvel at the beauty of the ripples on the water, the variety of wildflowers surrounding it, and the amazing diversity of the animals I saw. I would often see dragonflies, tadpoles, catfish, and even, occasionally, a deer enjoying an afternoon drink.

When I was bored, I would often drive up into the mountains, looking down with amazement at the city below, realizing what a small cog I was in this giant world. It always did wonders for my perspective.

Other times, I would pull out a book and engross myself in the imaginary world of the author. I found myself cheering for his heroes, crying and laughing along with them, and rejoicing at the injustices set right.

One of my greatest joys was looking into the eyes of my husband and telling him what a wonderful man he was, and how much I loved him. He has the deepest, most beautiful eyes I had ever seen.

I don’t do any of these things anymore, and haven’t for several years. And do you know what? I don’t miss them.

I have to admit, I used to. Who wouldn’t? After 35 years of being able to see, having your sight taken from you is quite a blow. But, I tell you, the good Lord has given me something better - MUCH better.

How did I lose my sight? To be honest, it’s really not important. The crucial question is: WHY did I lose it? Now, THAT question I will answer. I don’t know: at least not fully. I can tell you, however, that there is Someone who does know, and He has given me little glimpses over the past few years that have given me a peace I never had when these eyes were working.

People these days complain about being distracted by all the horrible images on television, and all those teenagers who walk around practically nude. I can say with confidence that, personally, I do not have any of those concerns.

I used to be one of the most independent people on this earth. I didn’t need anyone, and I could do anything. Now I am often dependent on others - which has helped me to learn to depend on the One who created me. There is nothing like needing someone to make you more aware of the needs of others, and how to meet them. I have become the servant that Christ had always wanted me to be, and all it took was the removal of one of my senses!

And, I know that I will be able to see again when I get to heaven (and I KNOW that’s where I’m going!), and it will be glorious. I don’t think there will be people more appreciative of the wonderful sights of our heavenly homes than those who could not see their earthly ones.

I often think of that wonderful hymn Amazing Grace and realize that it is true, in a very odd way, for me.

Amazing Grace, how sweet the sound
That saved a wretch like me;
I once was lost, but now I’m found
Was blind but now I see.

You can see so much more clearly with heavenly eyes than you ever can with earthly ones. When I became blind, my world completely opened up to all I could, and will, see.

Instead of the colors of the sunset, I will see the sparkling glaze of the twelve foundations of the Holy City’s walls. (Revelation 21)

Rather than marveling at our pond and the foliage around it, I will sit by the River of Life and eat of its tree. (Revelation 22:1-2)

Instead of watching a city from above, I will live in the New Jerusalem, with streets of gold and gates of pearl. (Revelation 21)

Rather than reading books to be transported to new lands, I will be living the ultimate fantasy, one that no one can imagine or improve upon.

And, on those days when I miss looking into my husband’s eyes, I remember that, one day, I will be able to look directly into the most amazing eyes of all - the eyes of my savior, Jesus Christ.

I may have lost my sight, but, thanks to my wonderful Lord, my vision is crystal clear.

I hope you found this encouraging - and that it reminds you of God's workings in the difficulties of our lives. I'll be back next week with a true story. Just remember. God is good.

Do you have a story you'd like to share about God's goodness in your struggles? Drop me an email and we can talk!

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A "Techie" Post on a Tech-Free Day

2012-01-03T06:00:00.000-05:00

For those of you who are curious - YES, I'm still keeping up my tech-free Tuesdays on the first Tuesday of each month. It has been fabulous for me.

I plan to stay away from my computer and texting all day - and it will be wonderful. Planning on going out to breakfast with my wonderful hubby AND go look at new mattresses (ours is in its teens and has gotten lumpy and, well, poky.)

BUT, just because I'm not on the computer doesn't mean I can't prepost something. Right? Cuz, you see, the amazing (and amazingly PERSISTENT and CONVINCING) Patty Wysong has been strongly encouraging me and several others to post vlogs (video blogs) on our blogs today. And I ALWAYS do what Patty says. So, while I'm avoiding my computer entirely, enjoy (or something :::roll:::) this short little video of yours truly NOT in her Sunday best, and NOT being exceptionally entertaining (or even a little entertaining LOL). But at least it's only a minute and a half long. And I DID prepost it (on Saturday even!) - so it's all legal.

So - DO you have any other questions? Go ahead and ask in the comments. Just know I won't be by to respond until Wednesday. And be sure to stop by Patty's blog and check out the OTHER vlogs that are there! (and hey - don't be afraid to make one of your own and link up!)

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Much to Learn

2012-01-02T06:00:00.000-05:00

The Child continued to grow and become strong, increasing in wisdom; and the grace of God was upon Him.(Luke 2:40 NASB)

You DO know "the Child" here is our Savior, Jesus Christ, don't you? The Great I AM increased in wisdom. He continued to grow. He became strong (meaning He didn't start out that way, right?). When God the Son came to earth as a baby, He had much growing to do - and not only physically.

This is a mystery I am positive I will never quite grasp this side of heaven. How can Omniscience increase in wisdom? How can All-Powerful God become strong? How can the Eternal continue to grow?

Because the incarnate Christ was both 100% God and 100% man, these things are true. And unfathomable - for me, anyway. But as little as I understand, one thing is clear to me: if we are on this earth, we are to be increasing in wisdom and continuing to grow. If God could grow and become "smarter," I certainly should be!

I have taken Luke 2:40 as my theme verse for 2012. I am certainly not Christ, but I am His child, am I not? And I have much to learn: spiritually, emotionally, relationally, intellectually, and every other "ally" there is, I'm certain. And having God's grace upon me sounds wonderful, does it not?

I don't know if you make resolutions, set goals, or just let the new year go by with nary a thought. But might I encourage you to grow and become strong, increasing in wisdom during 2012? This, of course, will look different for each of us. But the result - the grace of God upon us - is worth the effort.

Let's talk about this! Be sure to stop by Living by Grace to join the discussion.

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Not Just A New Year - A New Month :)

2012-01-01T06:00:00.000-05:00

Yeah - I've already talked to you about how I did in 2011 (click here if you missed it) and what I plan to do in 2012 - God willing, of course (check out THAT post here!). But there's still the matter of my shorter-term goals. So if you can bear ONE MORE goals and progress post in a week (yeah - that's three), read on. This one, I don't think, will be as long.

How'd I do in December? Well, let's check out my goals, fresh from last month's post:

Three blog posts a week minimum
10k in Handmaiden To A Princess
Start working on "reworking "Ailing Body, Nourished Soul
Get back into my "usual" routine

I actually managed about four blog post a week - maybe a touch more. I didn't write any more of Handmaiden to a Princess, but I did read through it and make some observations about HOW MUCH I need to learn. Made some changes, too. That's what inspired me to dedicate this year to learning my craft more (click here for details).

I did start reworking Ailing Body, Nourished Soul, but have barely started. At least I made a bit of progress. And yeah, I managed #4 (that was an easy one, don't you think?).

Considering the holidays, I am not disappointed in how I did. But January is another month (and the start of another year!). And I'm planning to do MUCH better about sticking to my goals. AAANNDD, for January, they are below ;)

Keep up with the two online classes I'm taking this month (1. Avoiding Mistakes that Scream Novice on the ACFW course loop[free to ACFW members!] and 2. Six Stages of Change - The Character ARC at Savvy Authors ) and make good progress in The Art of War for Writers by James Scott Bell.
Completely read through Ailing Body, Nourished Soul, noting thoughts of how to "transform" it into less of a memoir and more of a "help through struggles" book.
Work with Jennifer Slattery on determining the 52 New Testament biblical fiction devos in our next project.

Okay - that looks like a lot. I think I'll stick with those three - plus my blogging.

And now, off to DO it ;)

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Finds for Fridays: December 30

2011-12-30T06:00:00.000-05:00

Finds for Fridays is my way of sharing some of the wonderful blogs posts I read each week. I am currently following close to 100 blogs and at least scan them as much as I can. Each week, I'll note and "set aside" some posts that especially speak to me for whatever reason. And each Friday that I am able, I'll share them with you. I hope you'll stop by and read the posts, and maybe even follow the blogs if you aren't already. A win-win, right?

And here they are!

A Jar of Cotton Balls by Elaine Marie Cooper at Reflections in Hindsight (about a Christmas tradition that brought tears to my eyes)

Maybe by Donna Emery at Jewels of Encouragement (about homelessness and a Christmas miracle)

The Quiet Pause of Christmas at Peace for the Journey by Elaine Olsen (about silence and peace)

I AM... not that guy By Karlene Jacobsen at Jewels of Encouragement (about fathers and trust and God)

Who Did You Learn That From? Know Your Sources by Scott Eagan at Babbles by Scott Eagan (about who you should learn from. A "duh" I definitely needed!)

Enjoy these wonderful posts. You WILL be blessed. Of THAT I am certain :D

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Looking Forward: My direction, etc. for 2012

2011-12-28T06:00:00.000-05:00

Now that I've reviewed my goals from last year, and reported on how I did (check out Monday's post if you missed it), it's time to look forward into 2012.

One thing that I am planning to change (somewhat, anyway), is my blog. I'm taking on something of a new schedule.
Mondays: A devotional post - connected to Living By Grace , a Christian community on Facebook. Living By Grace is a modern-day, gather at the well experience designed to foster relationship-building while encouraging a closer walk with the Savior. Five amazing women and I each host one day each week.

Wednesdays: God Is So Good - a new weekly series sharing God's work in struggles - mostly written by me with an occasional guest post. Some posts may be stories I've written, though most will be true. If you have a blessing you think might fit, drop me a note (click here to drop me an email)

Thursdays: 3rd Thursday: As of Late (hosted by my dear friend Critty Joy). Another Thursday (not sure which): Writing stuff I've learned (more info below).

Fridays: Finds for Fridays - linkups to my favorite friends'/etc/ blog posts of the week.

Of course, I'll be doing other posts as I am so inspired, but these I'm hoping will be my constants. I'm certain I'll be participating in Patty Wysong's resurrected A2Z4UandMe at least some in the new year, as well as these goal and progress posts once a month. And who knows what else?

Another thing that is changing is my focus. God has given me a new verse for 2012, and a graphic to go with it.

The Child continued to grow and become strong, increasing in wisdom; and the grace of God was upon Him.(Luke 2:40 NASB)

I know the Child in this verse is Jesus, but I am ALSO the Lord's child. God has impressed on me the need to learn more about the craft of writing - and novel-writing in particular. NaNoWriMo taught me that writing novels does not come "naturally" to me - my writing style is more episodic, and I have trouble extending conflict.

So, I'm taking this year to learn as much as I can about writing in general, and novel writing in particular through classes, blogs, conferences as feasible, craft books, magazines. I will then apply it to what I have written in 2011, and improve it - writing more using that information. PLUS - sharing what I learned in a monthly blog post (see above :D).

And, to be a bit more specific, here are my four goals for 2012:

Learn as much as I can about writing from various places, applying what I've learned to Handmaiden To A Princess and any other writing I do.
Restructure my non-fiction book Ailing Body, Nourished Soul into more of a "help" book, and get the new version out to publishers/agents.
Work with Jennifer Slattery to put together the second Story of Faith devotional book (New Testament biblical fiction devotionals for tweens).
Continue to build my name recognition/platform.

So, there are my plans for 2012. With God's direction - and your encouragement - I know I will make much progress this coming year.

Have you set goals for 2012? Have you determined a focus for the new year?

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How'd I Do in 2011?

2011-12-26T06:00:00.000-05:00

I'm a goal-setter, as many of you know. And one important part of the whole goal process is looking back and seeing "how you did."And, being as there's less than a week of this year left, I figured now was as good a time as any to look back at those goals I set for 2011 back in January. And I can tell you that it was NOT my best year. But let's get specific.SO - here are my goals, straight from last year's post:

Get an agent for my nonfiction MS Ailing Body, Nourished Soul (the professional edit for it is 99.9% done--once it's complete, it's heading to the agent's assistant who requested it. If that isn't enough, I query others)
Complete AT LEAST THE SECOND DRAFT of my Biblical fiction, Handmaiden to a Princess
Keep my name "out there" - keep building my platform (facebook, twitter, blogging, reading blogs, guest blogging, writing for group blogs, etc.)
Keep my "life priorities" in order (spending time with the family, keeping the house clean(er), being more attentive, etc.)
Once a month (generally on the first Tuesday of each month), have a technology fast day. No computer. No email. No internet. No texting. (this scares me, but I am SO feeling called to do it, and I probably need MORE than that.)

So, I suppose we should go through these one by one. Agent? Nope. Though it was not for lack of trying. I submitted to nine different agents, with no acceptance, though some gave me INCREDIBLE feedback - including a suggestion to make it more of a "how-to" book - which sounds good to me :)

Second draft of Handmaiden to A Princess? Again, no - but I have made progress, and have learned a LOT about my writing, and what I still NEED to learn. I really HAVE grown in my writing, and know where I'm going - sorta ;).

Keeping name out there? Pretty good, I'd say. Am involved in another group blog and a facebook devotional community, I write for the FaithWriters blog, and my presence on Facebook and twitter have expanded (plus what I was already doing!).

As far as life priorities, you might wanna ask my hubby, but I think I am doing better in general.

My Tech-Free Tuesdays have DEFINITELY been a success. They have been wonderful for me, and I have completely succeeded with "staying away" (with the exception of one month when I fell on my face and needed text message moral support :::roll::: ).

So, not bad. Not great, but not bad. But overall, I think I did pretty well in keeping with my 2011 verse:

Nevertheless, each person should live as a believer in whatever situation the Lord has assigned to them, just as God has called them. 1 Corinthians 7:17 NIV (emphasis mine)

I think I DID, generally, bloom where I was planted. :)

And as far as goals for next year? Check out Wednesday's post for that (this one was getting a bit long. Don't you think? ;)).

How did YOU do for any goals you set for 2011?

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Joy to the World

2011-12-24T10:00:00.000-05:00

The Lord is Come...

Praying your Christmas is merry and Christ-filled.

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Finds For Fridays: December 23

2011-12-23T06:00:00.000-05:00

Finds for Fridays is my way of sharing some of the wonderful blogs posts I read each week. I am currently following close to 100 blogs and at least scan them as much as I can. Each week, I'll note and "set aside" some posts that especially speak to me for whatever reason. And each Friday that I am able, I'll share them with you. I hope you'll stop by and read the posts, and maybe even follow the blogs if you aren't already. A win-win, right?

And here they are!

You Can Let It Go Now by Lynda Schultz at Jewels of Encouragement (about guilt and His sacrifice for it)

Why Did They Cry? by Dee Yoder at My Heart's Dee-Light (about grace, the Amish, and death)

Being Mary by Linda Yezak at 777 Peppermint Place (about Mary - just beautiful)

What's Your Brick Wall? by Rachelle Gardner at her blog (about obstacles and what they can do FOR us)

Hope you'll enjoy these posts - I know they blessed me :) Be sure to check them out.

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To Ponder - Word-Filled Wednesday

2011-12-21T06:00:00.000-05:00

Haven't participated in Word-Filled Wednesday in a while - but this verse BEGGED to be illustrated :) A favorite verse of mine - especially for this time of year (for more reasons than one!)

But Mary treasured up all these things, and pondered them in her heart. Luke 2:19

Don't forget to treasure and ponder in this season of busyness!

Thanks for stopping by! Be sure to stop by The Internet Cafe for more Word-Filled Wednesday!

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I'm JoEing today :D

2011-12-19T09:22:00.001-05:00

If you're looking for Monday Manna, click here.

Check out my post at JoE today! I'm talking about absolutes - mostly the bad ones - it's a lesson we all need to learn. Come see how I surrendered my never - and be encouraged!

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Pondering

2011-12-19T06:00:00.000-05:00

Welcome to the combined Monday Manna with Living By Grace (click here for this new Facebook community). The purpose of Monday Manna to get together and get to know Christ more through His Word. Each Thursday, a Bible verse to ponder will be posted, either here or at my dear friend Vonnie's blog, My Back Door. The following Monday, those participating will post their thoughts on the verse at their own blogs and link up at the bottom of the post in the Mr. Linky gadget. The main purpose is to chew on the same Scripture and learn from one another.

AND now, we'll also be discussing the devotional - and thoughts about it - at Living By Grace.

I'm hosting today - and here's the verse:

But Mary treasured up all these things and pondered them in her heart. Luke 2:19

Looking forward to your thoughts. Mine are below.

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"Busy."

If you know me more than just in passing, that's the response you're most likely to get from me if you ask me how I am. (otherwise, the answer is "fine. How are you?") And not just today - or during the Christmas season. With two kids in elementary school, a husband on disability, writing jobs and projects and ministries here there and everywhere, and the other stuff I'm not remembering at the moment, my life is full.

And I know I'm not the only one. In today's society, relaxation is abnormal, and free time is an anomaly. If we aren't busy all the time, we obviously haven't taken on quite enough.

But, besides the exhaustion and burnout that come from trying to move at the speed of light (especially this time of year!), there is another huge problem with running about like a chicken with your head cut off.

There's no time to reflect.

God wants us to "be still." We often won't hear His voice unless we are. Remember - when God spoke to Elijah, it wasn't in the wind, or the earthquake, or the fire. He was in a gentle whisper - and we have to be still and QUIET if we want to hear.

But maybe we CAN find time, even in our busyness.

Look at Mary. She'd spend days riding (and not in a car, folks) from Nazareth to Galilee. That's eighty miles. And she was pregnant. VERY pregnant. Her mind had to have been spinning. And then, when it was time to give birth? She wasn't in a comfortable hospital - or even a bed. She was outdoors. Her baby had to rest in a manger instead of a bed.

And when she was done giving birth, did she get some peace or solitude? Nope - the shepherds came and interrupted any quiet she might have had.

But still, in the midst of it, she took the time to reflect, to put the busyness aside and contemplate all that was going on. She "treasured up all these things and pondered them in her heart."

Can't you do the same? All the gifts. The family. God's birth as a baby. Even your struggles. They are ALL from the Lord. Treasure them and ponder them in your heart. You won't be sorry you did - and you may even get a message - or a blessing.

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Thanks for reading. Be sure to link up below with your own thoughts - and stop over at Living By Grace to join the discussion!

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Finds for Fridays: December 16

2011-12-16T06:00:00.000-05:00

Finds for Fridays is my way of sharing some of the wonderful blogs posts I read each week. I am currently following close to 100 blogs and at least scan them as much as I can. Each week, I'll note and "set aside" some posts that especially speak to me for whatever reason. And each Friday that I am able, I'll share them with you. I hope you'll stop by and read the posts, and maybe even follow the blogs if you aren't already. A win-win, right?

And here they are!

God Lives Under The Bed By Joy Bach at Life Moments (about faith like a child)

Never Give Up by Kimberly Russell at Roar of a Lioness (about priorities and perseverance)

A Lesson for Writers from Jonah and the Whale by Jeannie Campbell at The Character Therapist (about giant successes, and little failures)

The #1 Gift You Can Give for Christmas by Jessica R. Patch at her blog (about little Jesus getting - and giving - gifts)

Living with a 92% by Elaine Olsen at Peace For The Journey (about striving for perfection and living in our best effort)

Hope you'll take the time to check these posts out, and maybe even follow the blogs. You won't be sorry.

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And the winner of Polar Bear Plunge is...

2011-12-15T09:20:00.000-05:00

On Tuesday, I got to interview the lovely, funny, and dear Linda Glaz about her debut novel, Polar Bear Plunge.Anyone who commented (and didn't already own the book!) was entered in a drawing. And just now, with the help of random.org, I chose a name to win a free e-copy of Polar Bear Plunge.And the winner is:

SUNNY!

Congrats, Sunny! Watch your email. :)

And if you didn't win - don't despair. You can pick it up for a dollar or less here or here. A great read - truly!

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As Of Late: December 15

2011-12-15T07:00:00.000-05:00

This monthly meme shows up on the third Thursday of the month. It's an opportunity to look back on the past month and see what you've been up to lately - and share it with blogdom. Stop by Christy's blog and check out her post, link up at the bottom, and read others' posts as well. Just plain fun!

And now it's my turn :)

LATELY, I've felt God nudging (okay - maybe RAMMING) me to reexamine my writing goals.

LATELY, I've been spending less time on the computer - and it has been good.

LATELY, I've been longing for a jammie day (and I may just get one in the next couple weeks!!)

LATELY, I've rekindled my love for Philippians 4

LATELY, I've figured out that my desire for direction is partly an obsession with control (yikes!)

LATELY, I've NOT felt swept up in the madness of Christmas consumerism (praise God!)

LATELY, I'm learning how very, very much I DON'T know about writing.

LATELY, I've been motivated to figure out how I'll learn more about writing - especially in 2012.

LATELY, I've treasured time with my family.

LATELY, my girlie support system has been working overtime (and they're SOOO appreciated)

LATELY, I have felt especially blessed.

So, tell me, what have YOU been up to as of late?

Stop by Critty Joy's blog for more As Of Lates - and join in yourself - everyone is welcome!

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Monday Manna: Verse for December 19

2011-12-15T06:00:00.000-05:00

The purpose of Monday Manna to get together and get to know Christ more through His Word. Each Thursday, a Bible verse to ponder will be posted, either here or at my dear friend Vonnie's blog, My Back Door. The following Monday, those participating will post their thoughts on the verse at their own blogs and link up at the bottom of the post in the Mr. Linky gadget. The main purpose is to chew on the same Scripture and learn from one another.

I'm hosting this week. And here's the verse!

But Mary treasured up all these things and pondered them in her heart. Luke 2:19

Thought this would be a good one for the season :) Don't be afraid to check the context.See you back here on Monday!

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Linda Glaz's Polar Bear Plunge - with a giveaway!

2011-12-13T06:00:00.000-05:00

I'm very excited to say that a good friend of mine has her first book out.

Linda Glaz and I met through FaithWriters, when she somehow contacted me about speaking at the 2010 FaithWriters conference (I wasn't the right person to ask, but I knew who was!). We both live in Michigan - though she's on the east side and I on the west. When she was an editorial assistant for agent Terry Burns, she looked over my nonfiction manuscript and recommended it to Terry. Though they ultimately passed on it, she has remained a friend. And now that she's a full fledged literary agent, it's certainly not a bad friend to have. ;) But even if she weren't, she's a dear lady and so very friendly and funny and helpful. Such a doll!

ANYhow, her book, released by White Rose Publishing last Monday, is Polar Bear Plunge. I had the chance to read it, and I have to say I REALLY enjoyed it.

But enough about me! I got a chance to ask Linda some questions, and HHHEEERRREEE are the answers! AND check the bottom of the post for a chance to win a copy of the ebook!

ME: Linda, what is Polar Bear Plunge about? Share the plot with us.

LINDA: Striving to put meaning back into her life after her husband’s death, Aleni Callan immerses herself in hospital work. Angry with God, she finds herself even angrier, when hero, Brice Taylor, author of The Human Shield, arrives in the Emergency Room with a concussion and hypothermia after participating in the Polar Bear Plunge. Aleni wants nothing to do with a man who willingly takes chances with his life.

Brice doesn’t understand how God could bring him through being a captive in Iraq, when he failed his troops so miserably. Writing about his escape brings fame he would rather avoid. And by meeting widow, Aleni Callan, his feelings of failure only increase.

Megan Callan with the help of her three-year-old grandson, Ty, scheme to bring Aleni and Brice together. And while the best laid plans often go awry, Megan isn’t one to accept no.

ME: Where did you get the idea for the story?

LINDA: My oldest daughter who is a nurse always wanted me to write a story about a nurse named Aleni. When the call went out for Christmas novellas, I couldn’t resist. Add a war hero and Aleni’s story came alive.

ME: Which of the characters is most like you?

LINDA: Probably the mother-in-law. I adore my inlaw kids and would do anything to see them happy.

ME: What do you want readers to take away from this story?

LINDA: That no matter what life throws atcha, get up, get going, and know God still has a plan for your life. Sometimes he really does say “yes”.

ME: Tell us a bit about yourself and your family.

LINDA: We are all theatre nuts. The kids were very active in high school and one went on to become an actress. So we see a lot of theatre. I love anything to do with writing/agenting. Give me a super great story and watch me go. But it had better be great. There are so many good ones out there that I have to say no more often than I would like.

ME: How can readers connect with you, Linda?

LINDA: The best way is through my blog.http://lindaglaz.blogspot.com/

ME: Where can we purchase Polar Bear Plunge?

LINDA: From White Rose Publishing or on Amazon. (click on the links to go there) Both are offering the wonderful a buck or less deal for the month of December.

Let me wish everyone a very merry Christmas. Blessings to all, and to all a good night!

Thanks, Linda! With a bargain like that, why can't you buy a copy? But I'm STILL giving away a free copy. Post a comment on this post, and you'll be entered to win an e- copy of Polar Bear Plunge. Winner will be announced Thursday, December 15. Enter by 7am ET that morning to be eligible.

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Truth

2011-12-12T06:00:00.000-05:00

This week, Vonnie is hosting Monday Manna, so be sure to pop over to My Back Door and read the other entries, and link up if you want to participate. And we're also discussing this post at Living By Grace today. Would love to have you join the discussion there!

Here's today's verse:

"Buy the truth, and sell it not;also wisdom, and instruction, and understanding."(Proverbs 23:23, KJV)

Believing lies is easy - especially when they seem to benefit us or make our lives easier. "Eat, drink, and be merry." "Look out for #1." "He who dies with the most toys wins." Each of these statements, and hundreds like them, are easy to live out. They take very little sacrifice, and they seem to make life more enjoyable.

They are, in a word, free. And, in the short term anyhow, they can make life lovely. But that is ONLY in the short-term.

What we really need is the truth. And the truth is NOT free. It must be paid for.

Thankfully, we do not need to go bankrupt to receive it. Christ has already given all that is needed. Two thousand years ago, God bankrupted heaven to pay the price for our sins - to give His one and only Son to His creation - first as a baby in a manger, and thirty-three years later as a sacrifice on the cross.

Living by His truth rather than the world's lies will likely not satisfy our short-term, selfish desires. There is often a cost: a cost of inconvenience, of delayed satisfaction, of dying to self. But that cost is miniscule in comparison to the freedom we are given in return: the freedom to live as the Lord designed us. The freedom to fulfill God's purpose. The freedom to know He is there through our struggles.

And once we have the Truth (John 14:6), it is with us forever. Though we can ignore Him, He will never leave. No matter how we stray - how we try to "sell Him off" - He is always, always there.

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Be sure to stop by Vonnie's blog for more Monday Manna - and come by Living by Grace to discuss this post.

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Snow? and Finds for Fridays - December 9

2011-12-09T06:00:00.000-05:00

I'm over at the Barn Door today, talking about an unusually "unwhite" start to the season - and a couple different reactions to it. Love to have you stop by. Check out Waiting For It - what are your thoughts?

Finds for Fridays is my way of sharing some of the wonderful blogs posts I read each week. I am currently following close to 100 blogs and at least scan them as much as I can. Each week, I'll note and "set aside" some posts that especially speak to me for whatever reason. And each Friday that I am able, I'll share them with you. I hope you'll stop by and read the posts, and maybe even follow the blogs if you aren't already. A win-win, right?

And here they are!

What Writers Can Learn from Politicians by Scott Eagan at Babbles from Scott Eagan (about skeletons in the closet)

That X in Xmas - What Does it Mean? By Niki Turner at In Truer Ink (about Christ in Christmas - from a different angle)

Are We Rich? By Rocky Lewis at The Barn Door (about teaching kids about riches and giving)

The Wandering Wise Man by Billy Coffey at What I Did Today (about mistakes and love)

Embracing Plan B by Michael Hyatt at his blog (about dealing with changes in your plans)

Let's Hear it for the Opuscule! by Lisa Mikitarian at Jewels of Encouragement (about focusing on the little stuff)

Hope these posts bless you. Check them out - and the blogs. GOOD stuff!

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Turning It Off

2011-12-06T06:00:00.000-05:00

I'm over at the Internet Cafe' today, talking about some of the distractions I had to deal with when I was trying to write my novel last month - and how the most significant one was more spiritual than anything. Hope you'll stop by and check out my post "Turn It Off."

Yet, though I'm there, I'm not - really. Why? It's that time again - and I'm VERY glad. (and what an appropriate title for my cafe post, eh?)

Yup - the first Tuesday of the month is my monthly tech fast - no computer and no texting. I'll be having a date morning with my hubby, and will probably do some cleaning (our pantry is kinda scary at the moment). If you're thinking about a break from that computer of yours, I REALLY cannot recommend it more highly. It has done WONDERS for me.

See ya on Wednesday!

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Only God

2011-12-05T06:00:00.000-05:00

For as the soil makes the sprout come up and a garden causes seeds to grow, so the Sovereign LORD will make righteousness and praise spring up before all nations. Isaiah 61:11

Looking forward to your thoughts. Mine are below.
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When I was growing up, I remember some people believing that we were getting closer to utopia - that the world was getting better and better, and eventually would be ideal. Modern technology was making life easier, they figured. Sooner or later, everything would just fall into place and we would live in the perfect society.

That isn't a very common belief anymore. You may find people who believe their life is getting better and better, but I'd wager you would be hard pressed to find very many who believe that SOCIETY is doing the same. From corruption to the economy to abortion to crime to who knows what else, the outside influences on our lives are clearly steering us away from, rather than toward, a perfect society.

But still, we all long for it, don't we? And, often, we work toward it. We wish everyone would just get along. We try to encourage those around us to perform random acts of kindness. We hope for justice. We teach our kids right from wrong. We elect (or try to elect) people into office who hold our beliefs. And sometimes it works for a while. But it doesn't get "all better."

Why not, you ask? Because we're sinners, and this world is chock full of them.

We plant the seeds, we water them and give them good soil, fertilizer and sunlight, but we can't make them grow - without the Lord, anyway. We can have an effect for certain, but were it not for God, nothing good would ever occur,. In fact, "Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows." (James 1:17 NIV)

The only way righteousness will overcome the nation - the only way we will TRULY be able to praise and enjoy a perfect world we all long for - is when the Lord our God brings it. Don't stop wishing for it, or working toward it, but remember...

For as the soil makes the sprout come up and a garden causes seeds to grow, so the Sovereign LORD will make righteousness and praise spring up before all nations. Isaiah 61:11

Don't put your faith in politicians, people, government, or programs. Only God can bring about the perfect world we all desire.

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Thanks for reading. Be sure to link up below with your own thoughts - and stop over at Living By Grace to join the discussion!

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Mind Over Madi - She's Here!

2011-12-02T06:00:00.000-05:00

Those of you know me even a little probably realize it doesn't take much to get me excited. It's just my personality. But when I heard my friend, fellow FWers, and West Michigander Lynda Lee Schab sold her book Mind Over Madi - and then that it was PUBLISHED last month - I was positively giddy. And, of course, I HAD TO be a part of her blog's book tour. So...here I am. And here SHE (and her book) is!

Madi McCall admits her husband lacks a little in the romance department, but all in all, he’s been a good husband, a good father. Now, though, she suspects Rich is having an affair with Fawn Witchburn, the mother of one of his fourth-grade students. To say Fawn shows off her “assets” more than should be legally allowed in public is an understatement, and Madi’s insecurities kick into high gear. When, in a heated moment, she asks Rich to leave and he complies, Madi is forced to deal with her issues. Issues of love and trust she’s tried so hard to avoid. Issues that trail all the way back to her childhood and make her act like a total moron.

Doesn't it sound GOOD? I've started reading, but must admit I'm only about halfway done (mostly because of my writing frenzy last month!). Enjoying it so far, though!

And now...heeeeerree's Lynda!

Whatis Mind over Madi about? Tell us a little about the plot.

MadiMcCall is a 38-year-old mom of three whose insecurities aredestroying her marriage. When she suspects her husband Rich ischeating with the mother of one of his fourth grade students, shekicks him out of the house and he moves in with his bachelor brother.Madi is then forced to take a deeper look at herself and herinsecurities. She does this with the help of a counselor, her bestfriend Sylvie, and a few cartons of Edy’s Dibs. At a 20-yearget-together with former high school classmates, Madi runs into “theother woman” and things come to a head. It’s a lighthearted storyabout taking a true look at ourselves and accepting God’s gracewhen we think and do dumb things.

On the cover photo, “Madi” is wearing a tiara. What is the significance in that?

Madi’s therapist challenges her to think of herself as a princess – the daughter of the King. Madi has never thought of herself this way, and throughout the story, there are references to various Disney princesses as Madi tries to figure out which one she most relates to. I had fun with the theme, even giving “the other woman” the fairy tale-ish name of Fawn Witchburn.

What do you want readers to take away from reading Madi’s story?

An understanding of just how infinite God’s love is. That no matter what we’ve done, God will never stop pursuing our hearts or desiring a relationship with us. His mercies are new every morning and His grace covers our weaknesses, our mistakes, our ignorance.

What is your favorite and least favorite part of being a writer?

Favorite: The creative process. Thinking a story through from beginning to end and then seeing my vision come to life through the characters and situations I create.Least favorite: Definitely the self discipline it requires. Time management is something I’ve always struggled with. Making myself sit down and focus when I know the basement needs cleaning, laundry is piling up, my office needs to be organized, or I want to watch the episode of Survivor I missed the night before is my biggest challenge.

What’s the best piece of writing advice you’ve ever received?

That’s easy: Apply the Butt Glue and just write. Discipline has never been my biggest strength, but that book won’t get written unless I park my behind in the chair and start typing. Even when I don’t feel like it. Even when I have a million other things to do. One of my favorite quotes on writing is “You can fix bad, but you can’t fix blank.”

Takea moment to brag about your family:

I’vebeen married to Rob for over twenty-three years. He works for a dairycompany (yes, that means free ice cream sometimes!) and is anall-around great guy. We have two teenagers, who both inherited mycreative gene. Zach is almost 18 and will be graduating from highschool this year. He will be going into film – editing anddirecting – and he’s also a talented artist. My daughter Lyndseyis a freshman and plays the cymbals in the high school marching banddrum line. She loves to read and is an excellent photographer.

Howcan readers connect with you?

My website address is www.lyndaschab.comI also have a blog with various writing and reading-related materialat www.on-the-write-track.blogspot.com.You can also connect with me on Facebookand Twitter.

Where can I buy Mind Over Madi?

My book is available right now from Amazon.com and BarnesandNoble.com (click on either link to go right to the page to purchase it!)People can also order it from their local bookstores (any bookstore should be able to order it from Ingram, the largest book distributor in the country)

Thanks, Lynda! You know I'm praying the best for you!

LYNDA LEE SCHAB got her writing start in greeting cards (Blue Mountain Arts, Dayspring) and from there went on to write articles and short stories (Mature Living, Christian Home & School) and in many places online (including www.Examiner.com and www.wow-womenonwriting.com), but her passion has always been fiction.

Mind Over Madi, her debut novel, is near and dear to her heart. Lynda admits she has a lot in common with the character of Madi. Not only are they both addicted to ice cream, chocolate, and computer games, they struggle with the same types of insecurities and continually require a hefty dose of God’s grace.

Lynda works behind the scenes at FaithWriters.com and is a member of ACFW. She is a regular book reviewer for FaithfulReader.com and is the Grand Rapids Christian Fiction Examiner and the National Writing Examiner for Examiner.com. Mind Over Madi received Runner-up in the 2007 FaithWriters Page Turner contest, was a finalist in the 2007 RWA Get your Stiletto in the Door contest, and won second place in the 2008 ACFW Genesis contest, Chick Lit category. Lynda lives with her husband, Rob, and two teenagers in Michigan.

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What NaNo Did - A Goals/Progress Post

2011-12-01T06:30:00.000-05:00

In case you don't know, NaNo is National Novel Writing Month - when a bunch of crazy people (including me - this year for the first time) attempt to write 50,000 words of a novel between November 1 and November 30.It runs every year, and ended last night. Click here for more info.

Going into it, I really didn't know what to expect. I didn't think it would be easy by any stretch, but I figured I'd be able to manage it - or at least come close.

So how did I do? Why don't we start with my November goals, taken from last month's goals/progress post?

Keep up on the blogging I "need" to do (FaithWriters blog three times a week, Monday Manna, a2z, and my three group blog posts) minimum. Anything else is gravy. (some of this I've prewritten before November)
Write 50,000 words in Handmaiden to a Princess (yes - typing that TOTALLY freaked me out!).
Do NOT read every blog on my google reader (this COULD be a goal that's hard to keep, believe it or not - but if I don't, there's NO way I can get the writing done I need to!).

Well, I did manage to keep up with my "required" blogging - and even managed one "gravy" post. So I'm pleased in that department. And as for #3? Also a success. With only a few exceptions, I only read the posts from my If I could only read ten blogs list - as is evident from the SEVEN HUNDRED AND EIGHTY-NINE posts from November that I deleted from my google reader so I could start fresh in December. (Can't wait to get back to reading my friends' posts again!)

And then there's goal #2. The one that freaked me out when I typed it. AND the one I did not meet.

In fact, I came just under 20,000 words short. Check out my word count for the month:

But I learned. A LOT. And I now have some pretty serious questions to ponder. They include, but are not limited to: ** I write best (or at least fastest!) when I am "competing" - whether it is against others or the clock.** I need to look at small goals (baby steps, yanno?) rather than larger ones. ** If I set big goals, I WILL get overwhelmed, and possibly freak out. (yeah - I know this one from experience) ** For me, writing a novel is very, VERY hard. A lot of things about it are completely contrary to my natural tendencies to write. ** My previous statement MAY mean I am not meant to be a novel writer. But it may not. Seeking God about this. ** Fifty thousand words in the month of November is possible - though not in any way easy - for me. (yeah, I know I didn't make it. But once I learned some of the other lessons, I realize that if I had used some of the strategies from the beginning, it likely would have been doable). ** I have a lot to learn about writing well. A LOT. ** I am a plotter with slight pantser tendencies. I should have plotted more beforehand. ** Open Office counts "open quotes" as a word on its own in its word count (hassle!)

And that's just the tip of the proverbial iceberg. It was definitely a good experience.

But what about December, you may ask? Well, here are my goals.

Three blog posts a week minimum
10k in Handmaiden To A Princess
Start working on "reworking "Ailing Body, Nourished Soul
Get back into my "usual" routine

It seems there may be something else - but that's what I'm sticking with. Thanks SO much for reading, and for your support! Onward I go!

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Monday Manna: Verse for December 5

2011-12-01T06:00:00.001-05:00

For as the soil makes the sprout come up and a garden causes seeds to grow, so the Sovereign LORD will make righteousness and praise spring up before all nations. Isaiah 61:11

Looking forward to your thoughts. See you Monday!

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What I Don't Understand

2011-11-28T06:00:00.000-05:00

Here's today's verse:

“What is the way to the abode of light? And where does darkness reside?" Job 38:19

To my kids (for the most part, anyway), I'm pretty smart. I seem to be getting less so in their eyes the older they get (and I'm sure this will continue well into adolescence), but for now anyway, they still expect me (and my husband, of course) to know most, if not all, of the answers.

But, of course, we don't. There are so many things we do not understand - from physics (well, I don't anyway!) to the square root of 5 to seven digits to why you always find what you lost exactly
five minutes after you buy the replacement.

Sometimes, I wish I had all the answers - especially when my kids are asking the questions. There's something about not being able to give your kids the knowledge they ask for that makes me feel inadequate and incapable. I mean, I'm the PARENT! I'm supposed to have all the answers - right? I'm supposed to understand.

But I can be reassured - and I can reassure them - that even if none of us know the answers, there is Someone who does. I may not know how to go to where light or darkness live, or how to bring rain to a parched land, but I know Who does.

And I, and my children, can depend on the all-knowing God, no matter how much we don't understand. Because He knows all.

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Thanks for reading! Be sure to stop by Vonnie's blog for more Monday Manna - and come to Living by Grace for a discussion.

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Finds for Fridays - November

2011-11-25T06:00:00.000-05:00

FYI - because of my participation in National Novel Writing Month this November, my blog reading was decreasing considerably this month. Because of that, I'm only having this one Finds for Fridays for this month.

Finds for Fridays is my way of sharing some of the wonderful blogs posts I read each week. I am currently following close to 100 blogs and at least scan them as much as I can. Each week, I'll note and "set aside" some posts that especially speak to me for whatever reason. And each Friday that I am able, I'll share them with you. I hope you'll stop by and read the posts, and maybe even follow the blogs if you aren't already. A win-win, right? One more FYI - these are only (with an exception or two) from my "Top Ten Blogs" - cuz that's about all I've read this month!

And here they are!

Mirrored Elevens by Patty Wysong at Jewels of Encouragement (about being a reflection of Him, no matter our "position.")

Surprises in the Scripture by Diana Dart at Jewels of Encouragement (about how our life is like Bible accounts)

Thoughtful About: Being Wanted by Roseanna White at Writing Roseanna (about how much our kids need us, and how much WE need our Father)

A Heart Set Free by Mari LaVell at A Mari Heart (a short story you will NOT soon forget!)

Writing/Craft Posts
What is Your Novel Missing? Deep POV by Cindy R. Wilson at The Writers Alley (a SUPER explanation of exactly what Deep POV is)

Thanks for reading, folks! Be sure to check these out when you can - and possibly even follow the blogs. You will NOT be sorry!

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Giving Thanks Where Thanks Is Due

2011-11-24T08:04:00.001-05:00

Happy Thanksgiving, my friends. I am thankful to the Lord for YOU.

Enjoy your day!

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If I Were... (and the Internet Cafe)

2011-11-22T06:00:00.000-05:00

How often are you surprised at how clueless some people can be? Sure, you don't say anything about it, but you wonder how they CAN'T grasp the simplest concepts. I'm over at the Internet Cafe today, talking about exactly why that's a bad attitude, and how our wisdom is, well, not so wise. It's All Him.

And now, for a LITTLE fun :)

If I Were...

If I were a month, I’d be April.
If I were a day of the week, I’d be Sunday
If I were a time of day, I’d be early morning.
If I were a "planet," I’d be Mars.
If I were a sea animal, I’d be a dolphin.
If I were a direction, I’d be Northwest.
If I were a piece of furniture, I'd be a recliner.
If I were a liquid, I'd be apple cider.
If I were a gemstone, I'd be jade.
If I were a tree, I’d be an oak.
If I were a tool, I'd be a level.
If I were a flower, I'd be a stargazer lily.

If I were a kind of weather, I’d be a spring shower.
If I were a musical instrument, I'd be a flute.
If I were a color, I'd be purple.
If I were an emotion, I’d be joy.
If I were a fruit, I’d be a peach.
If I were a sound, I’d be The Pink Panther theme.
If I were an element, I’d be oxygen.
If I were a car, I'd be a minivan.
If I were a food, I’d be ice cream.
If I were a place, I’d be a rainforest.
If I were a fabric, I'd be cotton.
If I were a taste, I’d be sweet.
If I were a scent, I’d be vanilla.
If I were an animal, I’d be a koala.
If I were an object, I'd be a laptop.
If I were a body part, I’d be a pinky toe.
If I were a facial expression, I’d be a grin.
If I were a pair of shoes, I’d be bunny slippers.

WHAT WOULD YOU BE?

Go ahead and try it on YOUR blog - or in the comments. Be sure to let me know so I can check your answers out!

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I'm Not One To Brag...

2011-11-21T06:00:00.000-05:00

But let the one who boasts boast about this: that they have the understanding to know me, that I am the LORD, who exercises kindness, justice and righteousness on earth, for in these I delight,” declares the LORD. Jeremiah 9:24

Looking forward to your thoughts. Mine are below.

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I'm going to be honest here. I love getting credit for hard work I've done. It makes me smile when I get a "thank you" for something I've accomplished and, I'm ashamed to say, I sometimes get grumpy when my efforts go unnoticed.

I wouldn't exactly call myself a braggart, but I certainly don't complain when others give me kudos. And maybe that's natural. Who really wants to be ignored when they have a great accomplishment?

But, of course, I don't really do anything, do I? It is only through Christ that I can accomplish good things. So boasting is ridiculous, unless we are boasting about He who allows us to accomplish.

I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing. John 15:5

And He is certainly someone to boast about, is He not? Just look at the qualities mentioned in this Monday's verse. He exercises kindness, justice and righteousness. This world is His, and every good thing is from Him.

So I have nothing to boast about - unless I'm bragging about my God. And that's someOne to brag about!

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Thanks for reading. Be sure to link up below with your own thoughts - and stop over at Living By Grace to join the discussion!

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I'm at Jewels of Encouragement

2011-11-19T06:00:00.000-05:00

Be sure to stop by JoE today. I'm over there talking about freedom and slavery. Praying it encourages you (that's what the blog's about, yanno!).

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Friday Fiction - "Handmaiden To A Princess" Excerpt

2011-11-18T00:00:00.000-05:00

It's been a LONG time since I hosted Friday Fiction, but when the lovely Sara "Sawa" Harricharan mentioned the possibilityof posting a NaNoWriMo excerpt, I figured it would be fun!

Soooo, here I am :) Remember - this is NOT edited (I didn't even reread it! LOL).

Be sure to link up in the gadget below my story. Don't forget to browse the links, read a few pieces and leave a comment or two. We all love the feedback. Happy reading!

Handmaiden To A Princess - NaNo excerpt

Dew still coveredthe ground as Ashia walked along the flower-bordered walkway from theprincess' quarters she had just left. The sun, scarcely above thehorizon, shone directly in her eyes, so much that shielded her eyeswith her left hand. Her right, however, grasped as small knife. Anecessary implement for her morning duties.

The closer she gotto her destination, the slower she walked, until she came to acomplete standstill at the entrance to the king's flower garden. Eyesclosed, she inhaled slowly and took in all the scents of the nearbyflora. The smile across her face widened. And once she opened hereyes, what she saw warmed her cheeks.

“Nahum. I didn'texpect to see you here so early.” She lowered her eyes slightly,trying to calm the flips in her stomach.

He chuckled, hisbrown eyes sparkling. “I am always here at this time. It is you whoare early. Does the princess have an early engagement? Did sherequest flowers still fresh with dew?”

She willed hersmile to tone down. “Oh, nothing like that. I simply didn't sleepvery well, and thought I would get an early start, and perhaps havetime to mill about before I needed to return.” She shifted theknife from hand to hand.

Nahum nodded andsmiled. “Then I shall leave you to your milling.” He turned andwalked up one of the paths, stopping at a patch of pansies.

As he knelt, Ashiaturned, heading down the main garden path toward the center. Sittingon a log beside one of many patches of growth, she once again inhaledthe many scents of the flowers around her. A red and yellow lilycaught her attention. She brought her face within inches of thebloom, inspecting every bit of it. Not an imperfection in sight.

Next, her fingerscaressed the petals, the silky feel making her fingers tingle.Finally, she lifted the knife, which she'd placed on the groundbeside her, and cut the stem about a handsbreadth down from thebloom.

“One more,” shemuttered, “and the princess will be satisfied.”

Ashia rose, thelily in one hand and knife in the other. Inhaling, she surveyed thenearby flower beds, watching for a bloom to complement the one she'dalready chosen. Perhaps another red and yellow flower. Or maybe justone of those colors.

She released theair from her lungs as a tall hyacinth, the same shade of crimson asthe lily, caught her eye. She raced toward it and dropped to herknees in front of the multi-flowered blossom. Holding the lily upbeside it, she smiled. “Perfect.”

Something brushedagainst her shoulder. “Those do complement each other beautifully.You really do have an eye for color and beauty.” Nahum's voice madeher look up. His brown wavy hair covered his right eye. She resistedthe urge to brush it away from his face.

She smiled at him,then returned to the flower. After cutting it from the stem, sherose. “Thank you, Nahum. I do enjoy all that grows here. A touch ofbeauty in a frightening, uncertain place.”

“That it is.”He beckoned her toward a small bench not far away. They both sat.

“And the Lordsaid that it was good.” Nahum stretched his arms out and extendedthem from in front of him to his sides. “My scriptures say thatYahweh made all of this: every tree, plant, mountain, hill, person,star in the sky. And that it is good.”

Ashia fidgeted inher chair. “If this is true, I wonder why he made the nettle? Orthe mosquito?” She lowered her voice and head. “Or the madman.”

Nahum raised hiseyebrows. “Or war. Or death. But He is sovereign. And much of whathe did create is lovely. Especially in this garden.” He leaned tothe side and picked a daisy from the ground. “For you. A bit ofbeauty to take with you into the cruel world.”

She grinned,stifling a chuckle. “My god would ask for this flower as asacrifice, perhaps. He would demand I focus on pleasing him, ratherthan lightening my mood. To him, beauty is useless unless it isbenefiting him.”

Nahum's browcrinkled. “My God also desires sacrifice. He is a just God, whodoes not take our transgressions against Him lightly. Yet, He alsoblesses those who love Him and gives us beauty to appreciate. Hevalues nothing more than devotion to Him, and truth.”

She snickered. “Andmine values gold, silver, and spices. He gives us nothing unless webeg, and even then there is no guarantee. We must please him, or facehis wrath.”

Nahum sighed. “Andyet you worship him. You sacrifice to him.” He looked into Ashia'seyes. “Forgive me for my questions, and do not answer if it makesyou uncomfortable, but I'm curious. Do you believe your God createdthe world? Why do you sacrifice to him? What makes him worthy of yourworship?”

Ashia's insidestightened and she felt her face pale. “I really don't know what tosay. I know he has kept me and my family safe. And the rituals are soimportant to Mama. I guess I never really thought about it before.”She forced a smile. “But I will.”

Thanks for reading! Be sure to link up below, and read some of the other stories. You'll be blessed!

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Monday Manna: Verse for November 21

2011-11-17T09:00:00.000-05:00

But let the one who boasts boast about this: that they have the understanding to know Me, that I am the LORD, who exercises kindness, justice and righteousness on earth, for in these I delight,” declares the LORD. Jeremiah 9:24

Looking forward to your thoughts - AND mine. See you back here on Monday!

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The End of A 2 Z (that means "Z")

2011-11-15T06:00:00.000-05:00

Welcome to THE LAST WEEK of my dear, dear friend Patty Wysong's From A 2 Z 4 U and me. We're working through the alphabet - one letter each Tuesday. No rules, other than your post has to relate to the letter of the week. Link up at Ordinary Lives and check out everyone else's post. Click on the graphic above for more details, and stop by Patty's blog to link up.

Can it really be time for the letter Z? It's hard to believe we've been at this for 26 weeks. Apparently, though, we have. Though I haven't participated every week, I've been pretty regular for the most part. And it's been fun.

I've known what Z was for for at least a few weeks. There were several possibilities, but one definitely reached out and grabbed me - especially after taking a peek into my daughter's "stuffed animal tub."

Here at An Open Book, Z is for zoo.

Monkeys kicking back

Pretty, eh?

We love to go to the zoo here. There's one, the John Ball Zoo, only fifteen miles away, and we try to go at least a few times a year. They have a summer camp that the kids love. They've both been doing it every summer they've been old enough. It's a highlight of their summer.

But this past summer, we did a little extra "zooness." We traveled an hour or two to the south and had a mini-vacation involving not one, but two other zoos.

My girl petting the giraffe. SO cool!

One was a "typical" zoo - The Binder Park Zoo in Battle Creek, a substantially larger zoo than John Ball. Their "Wild Africa" exhibit was a huge hit with my kids (who had been there once before, but couldn't remember, as it had been a while). The walk-up giraffe platform was definitely a favorite for all four of us. Face to face with these tall creatures? Yep :)

goin' for a ride!

The second zoo was not as traditional. The Kalamazoo Air Zoo featured the history (and future) of flight - including a replica of the Wright Brothers' plane, flight simulators, and a stealth bomber. Lots of fun rides for the kids too - of just about any age.

The zoo in her closet

And then, of course, there's the zoo in my daughter's closet. I suppose she's no different than most girls her age (nearly 8!) - she LOVES stuffed animals of many kinds. Just in sight here is a unicorn, an elephant, a few dogs (including "Smoochie Poochie," a fave, who's licking the elephant's head in this picture), and a cat. And there are LOTS more under this pile. And even better? It costs us nothing to see them (though buying them was NOT free), and they won't attack ;).

So, there's Z! What a fun project, Peejers! Be sure to stop by her blog for more "z" posts.

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The Scent

2011-11-14T06:00:00.000-05:00

Here's today's verse:

"And walk in love, as Christ also has loved us and given Himself for us, an offering and a sacrifice to God for a sweet-smelling aroma."(Ephesians 5:2 NKJV)

It's getting closer and closer to Thanksgiving - in just ten days, families and friends will be gathering to reflect on the blessings God has given, and enjoy a feast. At least MY family will.

As tasty as the turkey, stuffing, candied yams (yuuummm), green bean casserole, mashed potatoes, cranberry sauce and pie may be, sometimes I've found that even better is the aroma. Sometimes, in fact, I prefer the scent of something to the actual taste.

For example, I love the smell of coffee, but I don't like the taste. Not even a little bit. And, at least in my opinion, most breads (though not all!) smell better than they taste.

But did you ever think about how pleasing our actions can be to God? When we love as God loved us, when we make sacrifices for the kingdom of God, He is pleased. And our sacrifice smells sweet to Him.

In Old Testament times, there were sacrifices for sin, for fellowship, and several other things. Each required giving something up, and the scent of the burning offering rose to heaven. And it pleased the Father.

God asks us to do the same - to love in word and deed, to draw closer to Him, to sacrifice our own needs, desires, and lives for His. And when we do, it is not just pleasing in His sight. It is a pleasing aroma in His nose.

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A Fall Walk

2011-11-09T06:00:00.000-05:00

I'm over at The Barn Door today, talking about taking A Fall Walk. Hope you'll stop by and check it out.

Thanks!

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Y is for

2011-11-08T06:00:00.000-05:00

Welcome to week TWENTY-FIVE of my dear, dear friend Patty Wysong's From A 2 Z 4 U and me. (Just one more letter. WoWzers!) We're working through the alphabet - one letter each Tuesday. No rules, other than your post has to relate to the letter of the week. Link up at Ordinary Lives and check out everyone else's post. Click on the graphic above for more details, and stop by Patty's blog to link up.

Is there a food that you truly enjoy, but nobody else in your family likes it? A delectable treat that tickles your taste buds, but your spouse and kids would rather eat dirt than consume?

And is this food one that needs to be cooked - so it's not a matter of just grabbing it from the store and stuffing it in your mouth? It take EFFORT to prepare it for just one person. And sometimes, it just doesn't feel like it's worth that effort.

Yummmmmm

My answer, of course, is "YES." And the food? YAMS: or perhaps more properly categorized, sweet potatoes.

It hasn't always been this way. My son, Andrew, LOVED them as a baby. For quite a while, they were his favorite baby food. Orange was a common stain color on his bib, and, of course, all over his face.

But his tastes changed to correspond more with my husband's (who doesn't even like to have one near him LOL) and daughter's. So I'm the sole sweet potato/yam lover in my house. And maybe I'm lazy, but rarely do I take the trouble of picking one up and baking it just for myself.

Part of my dinner at Brann's last Thursday

So I wait for Thanksgiving, when someone else MIGHT bring some to the family gathering (it's not too popular among the hubby's family either). Or I keep my eye out for it on the menu when we eat out. (I'm SO glad they're becoming more popular)

Every once in a while, I'll pick up a can of yams, or buy a sweet potato and bake it and have it for lunch. But it's not common. Perhaps I'll go treat myself with one...

If there aren't any at Thanksgiving.

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Thanks for reading! Be sure to stop by Patty's blog for more Y posts.

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Good and Bad

2011-11-07T06:00:00.000-05:00

When times are good, be happy; but when times are bad, consider this: God has made the one as well as the other. Therefore, no one can discover anything about their future. Ecclesiastes 7:14

Looking forward to your thoughts. Mine are below.

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We're fickle people - many of us, anyway. When things are going our way, we take the credit, but when life is bad, we blame God. Pretty ridiculous when you think about it, isn't it?

How often have you heard someone say "How can a loving God allow ________ ?" or "Why me? Why does the Lord allow all these things to happen to me?" We work hard. We do the best we can, but still businesses fail. Natural disasters come. Illness takes us by surprise. Random violence infiltrates our world, or even our homes. And we often wonder, if only for a moment, what we ever did to deserve such treatment from God.

Yet, when was the last time you questioned the GOOD things God sent your way? "How can a just God allow me, a sinner, to go to Heaven?" or "Why me? Why does the Lord shower blessings on a person who deserves nothing but condemnation?" We cheat. We steal. We covet. We put our own desires above others.' But still, the sun rises each day. We have food and clothing. We are loved. We are forgiven. We are saved from our sins.

We have every right to be happy when things go well, and be a bit down when they're not. But be sure, no matter your circumstances, to give credit where credit is due: to the Lord of the universe.

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Thanks for reading. Be sure to link up below with your own thoughts. And come chat with ME about this post at Living by Grace.

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Finds for Fridays: November 4

2011-11-04T06:00:00.000-04:00

FYI - because of my participation in National Novel Writing Month this November, my blog reading is decreasing considerably over the next several weeks. I am unsure when my next Finds for Fridays post will be because of it. Whenever I have time to read and have blogs to share, I will post links on Fridays. If I don't, well, see you in December with more links! ;)

Finds for Fridays is my way of sharing some of the wonderful blogs posts I read each week. I am currently following close to 100 blogs and at least scan them as much as I can. Each week, I'll note and "set aside" some posts that especially speak to me for whatever reason. And each Friday that I am able, I'll share them with you. I hope you'll stop by and read the posts, and maybe even follow the blogs if you aren't already. A win-win, right?

And here they are!

The Enigma of Trust by Lynda Schultz at Grains of Sand (about Jesus, trust, and naivete)

Adventure Awaits! by Christy McGraw at Critty Joy (about becoming and trust)

Passing Fancy by the Prude at The Barn Door (about Midwest autumns)

Writing/Craft Posts
Welcome Guest Blogger Superagent Natasha Kern at Seekerville (about what a writer should expect from an agent)

Hope you'll stop by these blogs and check them out. Great reading, I assure you!

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Monday Manna: Verse for November 7

2011-11-03T06:00:00.000-04:00

When times are good, be happy; but when times are bad, consider this: God has made the one as well as the other. Therefore, no one can discover anything about their future. Ecclesiastes 7:14

Looking forward to your thoughts - AND mine. See you back here on Monday!

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Out of the Frying Pan...A Goals/Progress Update

2011-11-02T06:00:00.000-04:00

Can it REALLY be November?

Apparently.

In fact, if I'm "on schedule," by the time you read this, I'll have already had my tech-free Tuesday on the first, when I wrote close to 2,000 words in my current WIP (longhand). But as I'm writing this in October, no guarantees.

But November is for later. How about we start with my goals from last month?

Here you go - right from last month's goals/progress post:

Finish fleshing out my 12-step plotting, do characterization, outlining, etc. for Handmaiden to a Princess so I'm prepared to write 50K words of it in November (yes - I'm doing NaNoWriMo - for the first time!)
Keep up and learn as much as possible from the free ACFW course on Plotting and Outlining (to help me prepare for NaNoWriMo).
Four blog posts average a week
More thinking about Ailing Body, Nourished Soul.
Edits of the biblical fiction devos with Jennifer Slattery

Well, I did a decent amount of preparation for NaNoWriMo (click there to be my NaNo buddy) - finished my 12-step plotting, filled out character sheets on five of my characters, and some other stuff. Of course I could have done more, but it's November now - and at least I don't have less!

The plotting and outlining class was pretty good (I did keep up), and I have been pondering ABNS (which will almost definitely become more of a "how to survive a crisis" type book - eventually). And JEN AND I FINISHED OUR BIBLICAL FICTION DEVO EDITING! Just waiting to hear back from a publisher about it. High hopes here :) And with 20 posts this month, I easily made the four posts a week thing.

So, in a word or two - a good month. And now on to THIS month.

Keep up on the blogging I "need" to do (FaithWriters blog three times a week, Monday Manna, a2z, and my three group blog posts) minimum. Anything else is gravy. (some of this I've prewritten before November)
Write 50,000 words in Handmaiden to a Princess (yes - typing that TOTALLY freaked me out!).
Do NOT read every blog on my google reader (this COULD be a goal that's hard to keep, believe it or not - but if I don't, there's NO way I can get the writing done I need to!).

I do believe that's enough. :) Thanks for reading, and encouraging me. Be sure you become my NaNo buddy if you're playing along - no promises I'll chat, but I like to be connected.

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Today is for writing - LONGHAND

2011-11-01T06:00:00.000-04:00

Yup - it's that time of the month again. The first Tuesday of the month is my tech-free day.

But today is also the first day of National Novel Writing Month (NaNoWriMo). And I'm participating for the first time. So, in addition to my regular bit of monthly cleaning (a few things that don't need to be dealt with too often), I'll be attempting to get some serious writing done on my "replotted" biblical fiction book set during the time of King Saul - with a pen and paper. For the unfamiliar, the goal is to write 50,000 words during the month of November. So I'm starting longhand.

See you back here soon. Oh, and by the way, X is for "I'm Xtra glad this letter fell on my Tech-free Tuesday!" LOL

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Loving His Law

2011-10-31T06:00:00.000-04:00

Here's today's verse:

Great peace have those who love your law, and nothing can make them stumble. Psalm 119:165

I LOVE to read the Bible. I've read it all the way through every year except one since I got saved in 1998. There is so much wisdom in it, for every kind of decision I might need to make.

Sure, some books/chapters are more interesting than others, but there's value and blessing in each and every word in His Word. Sitting down with my Bible every morning, glass of skim milk in hand, is one of my favorite parts of my day.

But, do you know what? I DON'T always have great peace, and I stumble. A LOT. Does this mean the Bible is false?

Not a chance!

Loving reading and loving what is read are two different things. Am I really cherishing the words God has sent to me through the human authors of His Word? Do I take every Word to heart? Do I show the message God shares with the world the respect and appreciation I show, let's say, my spouse? My children? My parents? Do I love the Bible as much as Christ loved me?

And my answer? Certainly not always. And not every bit of it. But I'm getting better. And, thank the Lord, He does not yet expect me to be perfect. For even when I don't have peace, He is there to comfort me. And if I stumble? He's right there to catch me.

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Thanks for reading. Be sure to stop by Vonnie's blog for more Monday Manna.

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Finds for Fridays: October 28

2011-10-28T06:00:00.000-04:00

Finds for Fridays is my way of sharing some of the wonderful blogs posts I read each week. I am currently following close to 100 blogs and at least scan them as much as I can. Each week, I'll note and "set aside" some posts that especially speak to me for whatever reason. And each Friday that I am able, I'll share them with you. I hope you'll stop by and read the posts, and maybe even follow the blogs if you aren't already. A win-win, right?

And here they are!

My Bottle of Tears by Kristi Huseby at Broken and Redeemed (about our preciousness to God)

Beautifully Blameless by Sherry Castelluccio at Embattled Warrior (about God's perspective)

Thankful is as Thankful Does by Lynda Schultz at Grains of Sand (about unworthiness vs. worthlessness)

The Sweetest Downfall by Jessica R. Patch at her blog (about Samson and the lessons we can learn)

Writing/Craft Posts
Blessings From A One-Star Review by Susan DeMickele at WordServe Water Cooler (about benefits of criticism)

On Being Mentored-Our Responsibilities by Mary Vee at The Writers' Alley (about what we can learn from mentors)

Thanks for stopping by - hope you'll check these posts out and be blessed as I was!

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W is for....well....

2011-10-25T06:00:00.000-04:00

Welcome to week TWENTY-THREE of my dear, dear friend Patty Wysong's From A 2 Z 4 U and me. (can you believe it? Only three weeks to go!) We're working through the alphabet - one letter each Tuesday. No rules, other than your post has to relate to the letter of the week. Link up at Ordinary Lives and check out everyone else's post. Click on the graphic above for more details, and stop by Patty's blog to link up.

One of the very best days of my life was my WEDDING. Not only did I become the WIFE of a WONDERFUL, fun, giving, and special man, but I got a new name.

That name? SHER. In case you're curious, it's pronounced like "sure" - as in "Sure, WHY not?" Some people think it's funny for just that reason. I suppose it won't be too hard for folks to find a way to make fun of it.

When I'm asked to spell my last name, nine times out of ten, I get to the end and folks are waiting for "the rest" of it. You know: Sherman? Sherwood?

But, do you know WHAT? I WON'T ever complain about it. WHY? Because the last name I traded in on May 29, 1994 was, in a word, WORSE. Much WORSE.

You think "Raise Your Hand if You're Sure" is embarrassing? Try having kids sing a certain commercial jingle to you as you WALK by. Try having your surname be an..um..unmentionable part of the male anatomy.

Try teaching - middle schoolers - WITH this WINNER of a last name. (Yeah, I feel sorry for my brother, his wife, AND his precious children. But they're more self-confident than I am anyway.)

Of course, I could always have folks pronounce it another WAY. It DOES allow for another "sounding out." But even that implies I'm an annoying complainer.

Thankfully, it's no longer an issue WITH me. It's in my history. I WON'T be using my maiden name unless I need to (it WILL certainly NOT be my pennname). Sher sure is fine with me.

WELL - are you WISE enough to figure out WHAT my last name WAS? If not, keep WONDERING: and check out my graphic "hints." And if you don't care? WHATEVA!

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Now THAT was a fun post to write! I'm sure the others will bless you as well. Be sure to stop by Ordinary Lives for more "W" posts.

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Good

2011-10-24T06:00:00.000-04:00

For everything God created is good, and nothing is to be rejected if it is received with thanksgiving. 1 Timothy 4:4

And the Lord saw that it was good. You can find this phrase, or a slight variation of it, seven different times in just the first chapter of Genesis. EVERYTHING He created is good: algae, shellfish, hamsters, mountains, sequoias, pomegranate, pigs, and mosquitoes (yeah - even mosquitoes!). And that's just the beginning.

Sure, sin has tainted this world, but in its essence - in its creation by the God of the universe - God's declaration of its goodness does not change. Everything He created, whatever it is, is good.

But because God gave man free will, we have the ability to take anything good and make it, well, bad. And, as today's verse points out, it is often our attitude that creates that transformation.

When we are not thankful for what the Lord has provided - our families, the food on our tables, the job we have, the roof over our heads, the talents He gives us - those good things can quickly become stumbling blocks to living the life God wants us to. The good things become sin.

Everything that God has made is good, whether it seems that way or not. And thankfulness is one of the keys to keeping it that way - if not in our own eyes, then in God's.

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Thanks for reading. Be sure to link up below with your own thoughts. And come chat with ME about this post at Living by Grace.

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Finds for Fridays: October 21

2011-10-21T06:00:00.000-04:00

Finds for Fridays is my way of sharing some of the wonderful blogs posts I read each week. I am currently following close to 100 blogs and at least scan them as much as I can. Each week, I'll note and "set aside" some posts that especially speak to me for whatever reason. And each Friday that I am able, I'll share them with you. I hope you'll stop by and read the posts, and maybe even follow the blogs if you aren't already. A win-win, right?

And here they are!

Are You A Risk Taker With Your Relationships? By Terri Tiffany at her blog (about daring to trust and make friends)

Momentary Message by Lori McMath at Internet Cafe Devotions (about not leaving the message at church on Sunday)

The Colors of Grief by Alice J. Wisler at Jennifer Hudson Taylor's blog (about loss and grief and God)

Going Under For the Last Time by Lynda Schultz at Grains of Sand (about lack of faith and God's provision)

Shining Your Light by Billy Coffey at What I Learned Today (about being extraordinary - DON'T miss this one, folks. Gave me goosebumps!)

Hope you enjoy my choices - I know I did. Check them out!

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In Search of Hope - And October 24's Monday Manna Verse

2011-10-20T06:00:00.000-04:00

I'm over at the Internet Cafe today, talking about a week not too long ago when I was, well, GRUMPY. No valid reason, of course, especially considering the Lord's blessings. Stop by to read Where's Your Hope?

For everything God created is good, and nothing is to be rejected if it is received with thanksgiving. 1 Timothy 4:4

Looking forward to pondering and writing on this one. Hope you are too! See you back here then!

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I'm at Jewels of Encouragement today

2011-10-19T06:00:00.000-04:00

Be sure to stop by JoE today. I'm posting over there about leaving. Praying it encourages you (that's what the blog's about, yanno!).

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V is for...

2011-10-18T07:00:00.000-04:00

Welcome to week TWENTY-TWO of my dear, dear friend Patty Wysong's From A 2 Z 4 U and me. We're working through the alphabet - one letter each Tuesday. No rules, other than your post has to relate to the letter of the week. Link up at Ordinary Lives and check out everyone else's post. Click on the graphic above for more details, and stop by Patty's blog to link up.

These seem to be getting harder and harder! I actually flipped through the dictionary (online, anyway), trying to find a good one for this letter. I briefly considered vacuum (my hate of them mostly, and how lonely ours is), vacation (how much I enjoy them), and "Valley Girl" (cuz I grew up as one). But they were discarded.

Then I remembered a "V word" that has a great impact on my life, especially over the past eight years. And that word is VISION.

My eyesight isn't the best - 20/400, to be exact. I've had glasses (or contacts - briefly, anyway) since sixth grade. My husband has been in corrective lenses since first grade. So, even before eight years ago, vision was an issue. We just assume our kids will eventually need glasses.

After his first brain surgery

But then in August of 2003, a tumor was found on my husband's brain, in the optic chiasm - where his two optic nerves meet. And his vision, in a word, decreased exponentially. He has no sight in one eye (though that eye is sensitive to light) and no peripheral vision in the other - about a 30 degree range of vision. He has other symptoms too (which I won't go into here), but this, I'm sure he'd agree, is the one hardest for him to cope with. He can't drive. He can't concentrate for very long without a headache. Bright colors overwhelm him. I think I'll stop there.

The patch helps with brightness

But God has been with us in so many ways during this journey. I could go on and on (and in fact do, in the book I've written on the topic - looking for an agent). Suffice it to say, he has shown Himself over and over, and we have been blessed through this trial. He has been our VISION through all this.

About five years ago (three year after Marc's turmor was found), I wrote a story for the FaithWriters writing challenge about sight and vision. While it isn't true, I don't think I could have written it if my husband and I hadn't been through what we did. Click here if you'd like to read "Crystal Clear." Even though it's one of my very early entries, it's probably one of my very faves.

So, that's my V. Be sure to stop by Peejers' blog for more V posts (and be back here for next week's - I already know what I'm doing with "W" :D).

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Why I Can't Fly

2011-10-18T06:00:00.000-04:00

(and why you probably can't either LOL) I'm over at my DEAR friend Jennifer Slattery's blog today, talking about those "all things" we can do through His strength - and why we can't do some things.

Enjoy my post, and stick around Jen's blog - it's a great one!

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Pride and Humility

2011-10-17T06:00:00.000-04:00

But he gives us more grace. That is why Scripture says: “God opposes the proud but shows favor to the humble.” James 4:6

Ever wondered why, when you're doing good things for God, they don't always work out? Why your efforts to bring folks to Christ, for instance, or raise support to be a missionary are such a struggle. Ever had a great lesson to teach your Sunday school class, but you got tongue-tied, or the kids refused to listen?

There are several possible reasons, of course. God's timing. Outside circumstances. The hearer isn't ready. And that's just a few. But there's one that perhaps you don't consider too often.

Could it be that God is opposing you?

I don't know about you, but just because I'm doing the Lord's work doesn't mean I'm in His will. My motives are not always right in His eyes. I write for selfish reasons. I serve to be praised. I pray to look good. I share the gospel to "increase my numbers." I help my husband in hopes he'll help me back.

I think, in brief, that my reasons are more important than God's. I'm looking to make MYSELF increase, whether I realize it or not. And that is displeasing to the Lord. And though He sometimes allows us to succeed despite our attitudes, it is not always so. Sometimes, when our pride is our motive, He opposes us, and the work we are doing. And it doesn't succeed.

But if we humble ourselves and do His work for His glory, then perhaps He will show us favor and give us the victory - in HIS name.

Heavenly Father, I know that my motives are not always pure, and that sometimes THAT is the reason my ministry is unsuccessful. Help me, Lord, to do everything for You, and with the motives You wish me to have, because then, no matter the outcome, I know I will be in Your will. In Jesus' name I pray. Amen

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Thanks for reading. Be sure to stop by Vonnie's blog for more Monday Manna. And come chat with ME about this post at Living by Grace.

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Finds for Fridays: October 14

2011-10-14T06:00:00.000-04:00

Finds for Fridays is my way of sharing some of the wonderful blogs posts I read each week. I am currently following close to 100 blogs and at least scan them as much as I can. Each week, I'll note and "set aside" some posts that especially speak to me for whatever reason. And each Friday that I am able, I'll share them with you. I hope you'll stop by and read the posts, and maybe even follow the blogs if you aren't already. A win-win, right?

And here they are!

Every Day Is Tax Season by Lynda Schultz at Grains of Sand (about images, coins, and man)

U is for...Unforgettable by Kim Russell at Roar Of A Lioness (about black swans and bffs)

Microcosm of Humanity by Joy Bach at Life Moments (about people watching)

Embracing Change with Ruthy and Oprah, Only Oprah's More Famous by Ruth Logan Herne at Seekerville (about the benefits of change, and our hate of it)

WRITING/CRAFT POST:
The Difference between Knowing And Understanding: Successful Writers Get It! By Scott Eagan at Babbles from Scott Eagan (about mastering the craft)

Enjoy these posts - I know I did. Have a great weekend!

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After you check out my blog makeover... ;)

2011-10-11T08:20:00.000-04:00

Click here if you haven't seen my post about it :)

But THEN, stop by author and publicist Jennifer Hudson Taylor's blog. This month is National Sensory Awareness Month, and she invited folks with special needs children to share their experiences, struggles and joys on her blog. And, well, I'm there today. Come see what I have to say about being Friendly...To A Fault?

Thanks!

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U is for... UNVEILING

2011-10-11T06:00:00.002-04:00

Welcome to week TWENTY-ONE of my dear, dear friend Patty Wysong's From A 2 Z 4 U and me. We're working through the alphabet - one letter each Tuesday. No rules, other than your post has to relate to the letter of the week. Link up at Ordinary Lives and check out everyone else's post. Click on the graphic above for more details, and stop by Patty's blog to link up.

Unveiling what, you ask?? Well, if you're reading my blog on a reader (Hi, Marc!) or through email, perhaps you have no idea. But if you're actually at my site, you may have a BIT more of an idea.

Welcome to my BLOG MAKEOVER! Dontcha love it? I know I do.

I've been itching for a new look for several months now. In and of itself, that's surprising, because I'm a routine kinda gal. Not much for change. But for whatever reason, I was getting bored with my old header (which I made myself, thankyouverymuch) and colors. And I wanted to incorporate my tagline"Traveling Rough Roads With God's Strength" into the theme. But blog design is NOT my talent.

So, I turned to my near and dear Patty Wysong, who knows my brain as well as anyone I know (we share it, after all LOL), and gave her a bit of a project. And though I definitely was challenging, she came through with FLYING colors. And she was even willing to put it up for me to correspond with my u post (cuz I'm anal that way).

I LOVE the header. And the colors. AND the dividers. AND my drop-down navbar (REEAALLLLYYY love that!!). I'm so very pleased with how it looks.

And here's my button. Grab it if you'd like (code's on my sidebar)!

So, if you're not here, pop over and give it a look. And, of course, lemme know what you think. (and in case you don't know, Patty doesn't just design for me. If YOU're looking for a new look on your blog, pop over here and check out her designs and classes. Beautiful, and super reasonable!)

So, that's U :) Can you believe we've only got five more letters? Be sure to pop BACK over to Peej's blog for the other a2z posts.

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"Old-Fashioned" Paths

2011-10-10T06:00:00.000-04:00

This is what the LORD says:“Stand at the crossroads and look; ask for the ancient paths, ask where the good way is, and walk in it, and you will find rest for your souls. But you said, ‘We will not walk in it." Jeremiah 6:16

Looking forward to your thoughts. Mine are below.

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New can be so exciting. Very few would choose, all things equal, an old computer, let's say, over a new one. New things often catch our eye. New kinda goes with improved - and who doesn't want something improved?

Today's culture is always looking for the next thing. The world seems to be run by the young and up-and-coming. And, it seems, nothing old is valued.

And it's a shame. Because a whole lot can be said for experience. For the familiar. For time-tested and faithful. For what we know works.

An excellent example of this, of course, is God's Word. Parts of it are several thousand years old, and even the "newest" of it has been around for close to twenty centuries. And many people today think that, because the Bible is old, it's irrelevant. Because it's not "new and improved," it's not worth learning about.

We can look at the world and all its bright and shiny, colorful promises. We see all the new things, and long to grasp them. And just to the side is the ancient path - the good way. It may not tempt us, but if we are quiet, and listen to His voice within us, it calls. And if we walk in it, we will find rest for our souls, for He will give us that rest.

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Thanks for reading my thoughts. Be sure to share yours in the linky below, and read others' comments. And jump in and join the discussion at Living by Grace as well.

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Seeing Fall - and Giveaway winner!

2011-10-09T07:38:00.000-04:00

I love the fall. And have since the very first time I "saw" it (REAL fall - changing leaves, etc. Not Southern California fall LOL). I share a bit about my first experience with a colorful autumn over at the Barn Door today. Hope you'll check it out!

But that's not what you're here for, is it? You wanna know who won the Starbucks card, right? Well, first, don't forget to check out Lisa's book, Her Safari - pick up a copy here. And check out my post here if you haven't already.

AND - tomorrow the blog tour continues at my very, VERY dear friend Cat's blog: http://catrinabradley.blogspot.com/. I do believe she's having a gift card giveaway as well.

Okay, enough of the delay. I used the random number generator to choose one commenter for the prize. And the winner is...

WANDA!!

Congratulations, my friend. We'll be getting that out to you quick.

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Finds for Fridays: October 7

2011-10-07T06:00:00.000-04:00

Click here to enter my giveaway for a $5 Starbucks gift card - and learn more about Lisa Mikitarian's wonderful book, Her Safari. WINNER ANNOUNCED SUNDAY.

Finds for Fridays is my way of sharing some of the wonderful blogs posts I read each week. I am currently following close to 100 blogs and at least scan them as much as I can. Each week, I'll note and "set aside" some posts that especially speak to me for whatever reason. And each Friday that I am able, I'll share them with you. I hope you'll stop by and read the posts, and maybe even follow the blogs if you aren't already. A win-win, right?

And here they are!

The #1 Reason Why You Should Kiss With Your Eyes Open by Jessica R. Patch at her blog (just prepare to laugh so hard you cry)

Overwhelmed But Not Overcome by Hanne Moon at Jewels of Encouragement (about evil, Ecclesiastes, and a bit of hope)

Her Sister's Hero by Sherry Castulleccio at Embattled Warrior (about God's power and our reluctance)

Borrowing Tomorrow's Troubles by Kristen Schiffmann at On Talk 21 (about living in today)

WRITING CRAFT POSTS
Characterization Multitasking by Linda Yezak at 777 Peppermint Place (about showing both characters from one's point of view)

Your Words Right Now By Julia Reffner at The Writers Alley (about our writing purpose)

Hope you enjoy these posts. Stop by and read - and maybe even follow these blogs. You won't be disappointed!

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If You Start Something... (with a giveaway)

2011-10-06T07:00:00.000-04:00

you should finish it. That's what they say, anyhow.

And, in a surprising twist, my dear friend Lisa Mikitarian, for perhaps one of the first times in her life, did. And it was good.

What is it, you ask? Her Safari: Snapshots Along The Way - a wonderful book about a variety of women we can all relate to. This collection of short stories will make you laugh, cry, and nod. Lisa Mikitarian is a wonderful writer, and each story draws you in and keeps you intrigued. (Click on the link to buy it. Go ahead. I'll wait)

But I digress (LOL sort of - as this post is actually SUPPOSED to be about the book - just play along, okay?).

As I was saying, Lisa, bless her heart, is not one to finish projects. She's a great starter - but getting to the end often eludes her. She sets goals, but she doesn't meet them. She makes plans, but they don't come to fruition.

For example, Ms. Mikitarian LOVES knitting. She's made several parts of socks, sweater arms, and perhaps even half a scarf or two. But a completed piece, ready for use? HIGHLY unlikely. (and note how MANY unfinished socks are in the picture here. ;) )

She decided that, for a year, she'd decorate her husband's car with messages. It lasted eight months. The list goes on. And then, of course, there's her...um...er...daily hygiene. I hope she eventually finishes THIS project :D. (The right side of your hair looks LOVELY, my dear)

And so, to celebrate the one project Lisa Mikitarian DID finish, I'd like to encourage you to pick up this book - for yourself, first of all, and of course as a Christmas gift for a woman (or two) in your life. Click here to order this wonderful book (and if you click on HGIM when you order, part of the proceeds will go to Heart of God International Ministries - what a bonus!

Leave a comment on this blog post, and you're automatically entered to win a $5 Starbucks gift card. Winner will be announced here, on THIS blog, on Sunday, October 9.

But before I go, I decided to ask Lisa a few questions - to maybe get to the bottom of this "not finish what you start thing."

Hmmm…Joanne--this feels like a trick question! There are little pieces of me sprinkled here and there in many of the stories. I’ve never been on Percocet--am terrified of the prospect--because most likely I would behave like Ms. Scott. I did sneak a dog home that wasn’t a Dachshund, and I did go alone to Greece when I was 19 when my girlfriend ditched me, and where a senior citizen tour group saved me from my own stupidity. From time to time, I’m a melancholy martyr, an eagle-eye mom, and a smart wife who could whip up a smorgasbord if I needed to--well, half a smorgasbord, anyway.

Which MC would finish a project she starts (and is therefore completely unlike me)? Either Colleen from “Lord, Not another Shop Vac Christmas”--I fantasized what it would be like to be a completely self-sufficient homemaker for that one--or Catherine from “Heartburn at Mike’s Bar and Grill”--she’s so uptight, she scares me.

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Monday Manna for October 10 - New Verse

2011-10-06T06:00:00.000-04:00

This is what the LORD says:“Stand at the crossroads and look; ask for the ancient paths, ask where the good way is, and walk in it, and you will find rest for your souls. But you said, ‘We will not walk in it." Jeremiah 6:16

See you back here on Monday!

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My Monthly "Day Off"

2011-10-04T06:00:00.000-04:00

(I don't generally "push" my FaithWriters blog posts here, but if you're a frequent, or even occasional or seldom, Writing Challenge enterer, don't miss my post over there from yesterday. The challenge is changing!)

Yup - it's that time again.

T is for Tech-free Tuesday. (Sooo excited that T fell on this Tuesday LOL - go read the REAL "t" posts at Peejers' blog, though!) No puter. No texting. That's my rule.

Planning to work on NaNoWriMo preparation (maybe some character development?), a bit of cleaning, and possibly even finish this book (REALLY enjoying it - and I'll prolly have to buy the three that came before it!).

See you Wednesday!

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Be Heard

2011-10-03T06:00:00.000-04:00

"Blow ye the trumpet in Zion, and sound the alarm in my holy mountain; let the inhabitants of the land tremble; for the day of the LORD cometh, for it is nigh at hand." (Joel 2:1)

My husband often complains that I don't talk loud enough. If I'm not facing him, he can't hear what I say. And maybe I do mumble some - and talk to him as I walk away. But I still want him to hear. So that's what counts, right?

Maybe not.

If we want someone to hear what we have to say, we need more than intentions. We need more than to want folks to hear what we have to say. We need to take steps to make sure they can hear us. We need to be sure we're speaking the same language. We need to get their attention, and impress on them the importance of what we're telling them. Otherwise, all that talking will be for naught.

And what can we say that is more important than God's message to us - His message of hope, and His message of judgement? I want to tell unbelievers about the salvation, hope, and peace they can have in Christ Jesus - and the disastrous results that can occur if they aren't in Him. But if I mumble, or talk to the wall, my wanting won't do a thing.

If I stand in the middle of a noisy, crowded room and share Jesus in an "inside voice," I might as well have kept my mouth shut. If my message is important, I need to make sure I'm heard.

No one lights a lamp and hides it in a clay jar or puts it under a bed. Instead, they put it on a stand, so that those who come in can see the light. Luke 8:16

So I raise my voice. I "blow the trumpet." I "sound the alarm."I "put it on a stand." And THEN I share my news - His news. And people will hear me.

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Thanks for reading! Be sure to stop by Vonnie's blog for more Monday Manna. AND hop over to Living by Grace to discuss this post.

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New for Me: A Goals/Progress Update

2011-10-01T07:00:00.000-04:00

October 1. It's officially Fall (yay!). My baby brother turns (gasp) 35 today. AND it's time to look back, and forward. Before I review my goals from last month (from here), I'll say I THINK I did fairly well this month. But let's check out my goals to see.

Goals for September:

Finish fleshing out my 12-step plotting and most of the rest of the "prewriting" stuff and get to writing Handmaiden to a Princess (looks familiar, eh??)
Finish my LAST THREE biblical fiction devotionals for my project with Jennifer Slattery.
Four blog posts average a week
Do some serious thinking about changes I may need to make to Ailing Body, Nourished Soul.
Finish a book edit for the dear and lovely Rita Garcia.
Keep up on my new project, starting VERY SOON (stay tuned!! heheh)

Still working on #1 - but making progress (and that's okay - because that's part of the new I mentioned in the title :). More on that later.

I did finish writing those last four devos - waiting for critiques back on them. I did manage four blog posts a week - a little bit more, actually, as I did 21 in 30 days. Good for me :) I also finished my first edit of Rita's book - waiting for her to get the fixes back to me so I can work on the second edit-through. And that new project is Living By Grace, which is going quite nicely, thank you (PLEASE stop by if you haven't already!)

As for thoughts on Ailing Body, Nourished Soul, I do think I know where to go with it if I don't get a positive response from the last agent who has it. I got another rejection - with a great suggestion for just WHAT to do with it - earlier this week. Still praying - but I AM contemplating.

And that brings me to October. And my goals for that month.

Finish fleshing out my 12-step plotting, do characterization, outlining, etc. for Handmaiden to a Princess so I'm prepared to write 50K words of it in November (yes - I'm doing NaNoWriMo - for the first time!)
Keep up and learn as much as possible from the free ACFW course on Plotting and Outlining (to help me prepare for NaNoWriMo).
Four blog posts average a week
More thinking about Ailing Body, Nourished Soul.
Edits of the biblical fiction devos with Jennifer Slattery

So, those are my plans, God willing. Thanks for reading along, and cheering me on! And if you're NaNoing, connect with me!! (I'm joanne sher there. Original, eh? ;))

SO, WHO'S NANOING?

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Finds for Fridays: September 30

2011-09-30T06:00:00.000-04:00

Finds for Fridays is my way of sharing some of the wonderful blogs posts I read each week. I am currently following close to 100 blogs and at least scan them as much as I can. Each week, I'll note and "set aside" some posts that especially speak to me for whatever reason. And each Friday that I am able, I'll share them with you. I hope you'll stop by and read the posts, and maybe even follow the blogs if you aren't already. A win-win, right?

And here they are!

Why Do We Tell Stories? by Rachelle Gardner at her blog ( about our need, as humans, for stories)

When Desperation Takes Over by Jennifer Slattery at The Christian Pulse (about our need for God and His provision)

Talker's Block by Seth Godin at his blog (about improving your writing)

4 Components of a Compelling Elevator Pitch by Michael Hyatt at his blog (about just what the title says)

There's Always a Squeegee When You Need It by Pat Guy at Pat's Porch (about enjoying God's gifts)

Straw or Hay...What's the Difference? by Joy Bach at Life Moments (about the similarities - and the implication)

He's Not The God Who Watches by Mary Hampton at Internet Cafe Devotions (about watching vs. seeing)

I know my list is a TOUCH longer than usual - but folks were in RARE form this week! Great stuff - enjoy - and follow!

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Sssssssssssss

2011-09-27T06:00:00.000-04:00

Welcome to week NINETEEN of my dear, dear friend Patty Wysong's From A 2 Z 4 U and me. We're working through the alphabet - one letter each Tuesday. No rules, other than your post has to relate to the letter of the week. Link up at Ordinary Lives and check out everyone else's post. Click on the graphic above for more details, and stop by Patty's blog to link up.

Being a girl in my family is...um...a bit of an anomaly. My father had one brother - no sisters. My mom had one brother - no sisters. I have two step-brothers, a brother, and a half-brother- no sisters. When my daughter was born, she was the first granddaughter - there were already five grandsons. Since then, three more grands have been added - only one other girl. We used to joke that the only way to get a girl in our family was to marry one. (and my step-mom isn't exactly a girlie-girl)

Me and Robin (in that order)

So, needless to say, I never had a SISTER. And I did NOT like it. Not one bit (in fact, when my baby brother Artie was born, I cried. Truly!). I really, REALLY wanted a sister. But my parents and the Lord REFUSED to oblige. How dare they?

I think that's probably why I am so close with my girlfriends. Always have been. Robin, who became my friend in third grade and who I still keep in contact with. Terri, my step-brother's girlfriend (and eventually wife), who was my "sis" even before she became my sister-in-law. My dear prayer group sisters (Ann, Patty, Sharon, Amy, and Gesselle), who have taken up a huge space in my heart. And several others.

And, of course, my jewely sisters (who I'm thinking most of you have heard about here). Peejers. LaLee. Hally. Sawa. Vonnie. Sunny. Beffy. DeeQ. These ladies have permanent homes in my heart.

So, even though the Lord didn't give me any "blood sisters," He certainly blessed me, beyond belief, with my wonderful soul sisters.

Thanks for reading! Be sure to stop by Ordinary Lives for more S posts :)

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Tired and Weary?

2011-09-26T06:00:00.000-04:00

Do you not know?
Have you not heard?
The LORD is the everlasting God,
the Creator of the ends of the earth.
He will not grow tired or weary, and his understanding no one can fathom. Isaiah 40:28

Looking forward to your thoughts. Mine are below.

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I dozed off yesterday. During adult Sunday School. I was sitting quite close to the teacher, too. Not sure if he noticed or not (though I think he might have, since he asked me a question just as I was about to doze off - or maybe it was just as I was waking up. Not sure LOL). My husband did, however, and he tapped me on the side to bring me back from lala land to reality. So I missed a bit of the lesson.

Photo from sxc.hu

I have a project I've been working on for seven months that I am just about finished with it. But I have to admit that, over the last several weeks, I've had some trouble staying motivated. You'd think that, being so close to the end, I'd get that "second wind" and push that last bit out quickly. But it didn't happen that way. To be honest, I'd grown a bit weary, and it took some extra motivation to get those last words written.

These are normal things for me. They happen all the time. And I'm not alone. (Maybe? Humor me here, eh?) Due to the simple fact that we are human, tiredness and weariness are normal - a part of our normal lives (though, of course, I wish the tiredness would stop hitting me in church :::roll::: ).

It is at times like these when I praise God that He is NOT that way. Our God is everlasting. He never began and will never end. He doesn't dose off when we're chatting with Him. He will not grow weary when we spend months, or years, working on the same issue. He's always there beside us, keeping His eyes on us.

It's such a comfort to know that no matter how often I fall asleep on the job, or grow weary of the tasks the Lord has for me, He neither slumbers nor sleeps. He's always working.

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Thanks for stopping by! Be sure to check out the other posts below, write up one of your own and link up, and/or join the discussion at Living By Grace.

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Finds for Fridays: September 23

2011-09-23T06:00:00.000-04:00

In case you missed it, here's a post on my blog reading recommendations - the ten blogs I'd read if I could only read that many.

Finds for Fridays is my way of sharing some of the wonderful blogs posts I read each week. I am currently following close to 100 blogs and at least scan them as much as I can. Each week, I'll note and "set aside" some posts that especially speak to me for whatever reason. And each Friday that I am able, I'll share them with you. I hope you'll stop by and read the posts, and maybe even follow the blogs if you aren't already. A win-win, right?

And here they are!

STRONG...(the Word of God Has Spoken) by Elaine Olsen at Peace for the Journey (about the power of His Word)

Why Do Your Characters Do What They Do by Scott Eagan at Babbles from Scott Eagan (about character motivation - and the danger of too much of it)

Does Your MC Get The Best Lines? By Jeannie Campbell at The Character Therapist (about not coddling your main character)

5 Reasons to Celebrate: Real Life Isn't Digital by Mary Keeley at Books and Such Literary (about the real world - a post I NEEDED)

Hope you enjoy these posts - and exploring the ten blogs I listed in my above post. See you next week!

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Monday Manna for September 26 - New Verse

2011-09-22T06:00:00.000-04:00

Do you not know?
Have you not heard?
The LORD is the everlasting God,
the Creator of the ends of the earth.
He will not grow tired or weary, and his understanding no one can fathom. Isaiah 40:28

Looking forward to your thoughts. See you back here on Monday.

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If I Could Only Read Ten Blogs...

2011-09-20T06:00:00.000-04:00

Welcome to week EIGHTEEN of my dear, dear friend Patty Wysong's From A 2 Z 4 U and me. We're working through the alphabet - one letter each Tuesday. No rules, other than your post has to relate to the letter of the week. Link up at Ordinary Lives and check out everyone else's post. Click on the graphic above for more details, and stop by Patty's blog on Tuesday or later to link up.

Most of you know I follow close to 100 blogs (just FYI, several of these don't post even once a week - but still!) and try to read most, if not all, of the posts. I don't always succeed, but generally, I at least scan them all. Why? Because it blesses me. And because I get to pick favorites for YOU and share them on Finds for Fridays. And it may (or may not) take nearly as long as you might thing. (For some tips on google reader, the tool I use to read the blogs, check out this post by my buddy Patty Wysong.)

But I know I'm unique, and many of you aren't able to make it through a long list of blogs on a regular basis. So maybe you need an abbreviated list. So, with fear and trepidation, I'm going to try to do just that.

So, if I COULD only read ten blogs, here's my list (which was very, VERY hard to put together):

Craft blogs:
The Writers Alley - This is a group blog, with ten up-and-coming Christian authors. They write about technique, tips, and all sorts of things you need to be a better writer. And it's an EASY and often fun read.
Seekerville - Another group blog - with fifteen published Christian romance authors. They have TONS of giveaways, guest posts, and amazing, amazing insight into the publishing world. And they're FUNNY. And don't miss the comments - part of the fun!
Books & Such Literary - I follow several agent/agency blogs, but this one is probably my favorite. Their posts are in-depth, themed, and very helpful.
Writing Roseanna - I've become a big fan of author Roseanna White, and though I ADORE her books, her blog is a big reason. She's personable and has a way of bringing us into the writing world. She talks about latest reads, interesting words, historical eras, etc. Great stuff.

(oh, and I need to mention that there's one blog that I didn't put on this "Craft blog" list that you all should read. And that's the FaithWriters blog. The only reason it's not on here is...well, I write it. So why do I need to read it if I WRITE it? LOL so YOU read it, K?)

Devotional/Encouragement Blogs
Jewels of Encouragement - A bunch of amazing women (FaithWriters all!) sharing their hearts and love of the Lord, and the lessons they've learned. I'm blessed EVERY day.
Internet Cafe Devotions - Another bunch of amazing women sharing how God works in their lives daily - and some bonus "practical" posts on other things.
Ordinary Lives - And NOT just because the blogger and I share a brain. Patty's devotionals always speak to me, plus her a2z meme, as well as her series "Reading to Write Right" and "Blog Tips and Tricks" help me in countless ways. NOT just a devotional blog.
Peace for the Journey - Elaine has an amazing heart for God, a passion for His Word, and an honesty you won't find most anywhere else. It has been amazing to read along on her journey. If you join with me, you will also be blessed.

Miscellaneous - "just for fun" blogs
One Hundred Words - The amazing Jan Ackerson has created this extremely unique blog, where she tells a story, develops a character, or does something else amazing - in 100 words. No more. No less. And it's always fascinating and often fun/funny. (And it doesn't take long to read!)
Connecting Now -Lisa and Maddie Mikitarian giving out quirky, fun, silly, and crazy advice to just about anyone willing to write in. Almost always get a laugh there - or some food for thought. Just what I need after reading those craft and devotional blogs. And DON'T miss the comments - tons of fun there too!

So, there they are! My Blog reading recommendations for you. (This really WAS painful. And there is NO WAY I'm going to stick to just these 10 blogs. I'm addicted! :) )

Pop on over to Peejers' blog for more R posts - and write one up yourself!

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Casting the Right Way

2011-09-19T07:00:00.000-04:00

Cast all your anxiety on Him because He cares for you. 1 Peter 5:7

I'm not much of a fisherman. I remember being younger, visiting my great-aunt and great-uncle in Acapulco, Mexico, and them taking me fishing for the very first time. I was probably five or six. I don't think I caught anything, but that wasn't the point. It was fun. And adventure. And I learned (sort of) how to use a fishing pole.

Photo from sxc.hu

Not that I ever needed that information again (at least not that I remember). But I knew what it meant to cast a line out. You'd "toss" it out into the water, and once that fish grabbed it, you reeled it back in.

So you can imagine my issues when I applied this definition of "cast" to today's verse. I stuck my worries on the end of a fishing pole and threw them out into the lake of the Lord's promises. But after a while, I got tired of waiting for answers, so I reeled them right back in.

And it did me not a bit of good. Because those anxieties hadn't unhooked. They came right back onto the shore, and settled back, nice and comfy, in my heart again. And it was as if they'd never left me in the first place.

Thankfully, that's not the type of casting Peter, or the Lord, speaks of here. The Lord loves us so much that He wants us to take each of our concerns, all our worries, every care, and give them to Him. For good. No reeling them back in. He can handle them MUCH better than we can.

Thanks for reading! Be sure to stop by Vonnie's blog for more Monday Manna - and join me for discussion at Living By Grace.

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Fired! At Jewels of Encouragement

2011-09-19T06:00:00.000-04:00

I'm over at Jewels of Encouragement today. Pop over and learn about when I got fired.

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Finds for Fridays: September 16 (and lessons from a peahen)

2011-09-16T06:00:00.005-04:00

I'm over at the Internet Cafe today, sharing a bit about what I learned at the zoo about abiding in Him. The ZOO, you ask? Yup. It's a lesson a peahen and his chicks brought home to me. Stop by and read The Company We Keep, and you'll see what I mean.

Finds for Fridays is my way of sharing some of the wonderful blogs posts I read each week. I am currently following close to 100 blogs and at least scan them as much as I can. Each week, I'll note and "set aside" some posts that especially speak to me for whatever reason. And each Friday that I am able, I'll share them with you. I hope you'll stop by and read the posts, and maybe even follow the blogs if you aren't already. A win-win, right?

And here they are!

For Emma by Chris Bartnick at Life, Love and Happiness Weblog (about comparisons)

The Day Before by Seema Bagai at Jewels of Encouragement (about regrets and making EVERY day count)

35 by Jan Ackerson at One Hundred Words (about punctuation and attitude)

If You Can't Describe Your Story, There Probably Isn't A Story by Scott Eagan at Babbles from Scott Eagan (about the heart of a story and knowing its essence)

Write...Be...Who YOU Are by Casey Herringshaw at The Writers Alley (about perseverance and discouragement)

So, here they are! Some poignant, fun, inspirational stuff (some all at once!! LOL). Hope you enjoy the reads.

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As Of Late: September 15, 2011

2011-09-15T06:00:00.001-04:00

I'm smiling. :) Why, you ask? Because it's time for one of my favorite memes, As Of Late. I enjoy writing it up - but more, l love reading others' posts and seeing what THEY are up to.

This monthly meme shows up on the third Thursday of the month. It's an opportunity to look back on the past month and see what you've been up to lately - and share it with blogdom. Stop by Christy's blog and check out her post, link up at the bottom, and read others' posts as well. Just plain fun!

And it's MY turn. :)

Lately, I've been seeing the light at the end of at least SOME of my tunnels.

Lately, quiet is not quite as rare, but still just as precious.

Lately, I'm so glad I'm part of Living By Grace

Lately, I'm tired.

Lately, I'm adjusting to the fall schedule.

Lately, I'm reading in Isaiah, and absolutely LOVING it (as usual).

Lately, this book is totally wowing, and teaching, me.

Lately, I'm astounded at how fast my kids are growing up.

Lately, I'm savoring moments with my husband.

So, what's going on with YOU as of late?

Be sure to stop by Christy's blog and join in - AND read others' "as of lates."

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Q is for...

2011-09-13T06:55:00.000-04:00

Welcome to week SEVENTEEN of my dear, dear friend Patty Wysong's From A 2 Z 4 U and me. We're working through the alphabet - one letter each Tuesday. No rules, other than your post has to relate to the letter of the week. Link up at Ordinary Lives and check out everyone else's post. Click on the graphic above for more details, and stop by Patty's blog on Tuesday or later to link up.

You know, I thought Q was going to be a HARD letter for me. But I actually had several ideas come to mind, all of which seemed to fit me to a "t" (but of course, T doesn't come around for another three weeks :::r::: ). So, I'll talk a bit about each of them.

Q is for QUICK: Anyone who saw me at the FaithWriters Conference (or just about anywhere else, for that matter), knows I don't have a "slow" speed. I do most everything fast. I move fast. I talk fast. I think fast. I probably even sleep fast (Peej? Marc?). I jump from one thing to another. I am, in a word, QUICK.

Q is also for QUIET: No - I am not a quiet person in general (though my hubby often tells me he can't hear me when I turn my face from him and talk. How dare he, eh?? LOL). But lately, I have been absolutely, positively craving it. Could it be because I just came out of a summer full of kids home and, um, noisy most of the time? Because the television is on more than off here during waking hours? Because I'm more productive when I don't have noise around me? Maybe...

And finally (I think) Q is for QUESTION: Partly because I asked a bunch of them in the last paragraph. Partly because I've found it's a GREAT way to encourage folks to comment on your blog. And partly because my 7- and 10-year-olds are both FULL of them. And that's good - cuz that's the only way we're gonna get answers.

Thanks for reading! Be sure to stop by Ordinary Lives for more thoughts on the letter Q.

Which of these Qs appeals most to YOU?

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Credited Gifts

2011-09-12T06:00:00.000-04:00

Welcome to the new, "combined" Monday Manna with Living By Grace (click here for this new Facebook community, launching TODAY!). The purpose of Monday Manna to get together and get to know Christ more through His Word. Each Thursday, a Bible verse to ponder will be posted, either here or at my dear friend Vonnie's blog, My Back Door. The following Monday, those participating will post their thoughts on the verse at their own blogs and link up at the bottom of the post in the Mr. Linky gadget. The main purpose is to chew on the same Scripture and learn from one another.

AND now, we'll also be discussing the devotional - and thoughts about it - at Living By Grace.

And here's the verse for today:

Not that I desire your gifts; what I desire is that more be credited to your account. Philippians 4:17

Looking forward to your thoughts, both on your blogs and at Living By Grace. My thoughts are below.

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Several years ago, I went through a period of time when I needed help. A lot of it. I was six months pregnant. I had a very active toddler. And we'd just found out my husband had a brain tumor. We had no family in the immediate area - my parents were five hours away by plane, and his an hour and a half by car.

People drove Marc to appointments, stayed with him while I shopped, brought us meals, cleaned our house. They watched my son while I gave birth. They sifted the litterbox. They gave us gifts that we couldn't have made it without.

But they weren't just doing it for me. Our gratitude was not their only reward. And we certainly weren't the only Ones noticing.

God noticed when Marilyn Leali brought countless meals. He knew each time Bill Wesenick drove Marc to doctor's appointments. He paid attention when Jeanne Postma gave me a well-needed hug. Each time Barb Sluys organized all the help we got during that time, the Lord took note, and "credited their account."

And I'm so glad, because I can't possibly thank them enough. I'll use their giving hearts as an example to myself, and leave the "adequate reward" to the Lord of the universe.

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Thanks for reading! Be sure to link up below with your own thoughts, read others' impressions in the links below, AND join us for a discussion at Living by Grace.

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Ten Years

2011-09-11T07:00:00.000-04:00

There are some pictures I still can't look at without choking up, without mourning.Without forgetting Who is in control. But no matter what I remember, it's still true. He is sovereign of our days and nights. Of our blessings and curses. Of good and evil. And we rejoice in all he has done over the last decade. May we NEVER forget the reason for Patriot Day.

Though the fig tree does not bud and there are no grapes on the vines, though the olive crop fails and the fields produce no food, though there are no sheep in the pen and no cattle in the stalls, yet I will rejoice in the LORD, I will be joyful in God my Savior. Habakkuk 3:17-18.

WHERE WERE YOU?

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Finds for Fridays: September 9 (and two zoos)

2011-09-09T06:00:00.016-04:00

I'm over at The Barn Door today, talking about a little trip the family and I took to two VERY DIFFERENT zoos in southwest Michigan. Would love to have you stop by and check out Two Different Kinds of Zoos.

Finds for Fridays is my way of sharing some of the wonderful blogs posts I read each week. I am currently following close to 100 blogs and at least scan them as much as I can. Each week, I'll note and "set aside" some posts that especially speak to me for whatever reason. And each Friday that I am able, I'll share them with you. I hope you'll stop by and read the posts, and maybe even follow the blogs if you aren't already. A win-win, right?

And here they are!

Bloom Anyway by Niki Turner at In Truer Ink (about growing no matter where, or when, we are)

When Divorce Feels Like the Only Way Out by Sheila Gregiore at Internet Cafe Devotions (about the consequences of divorce)

A Mom's Work Is... by Laura Lee Groves at Outnumbered Mom (about our "work" attitude)

A Weight Too Heavy To Carry by Billy Coffey at What I Learned Today (about innocence to the news)

A Word Miser's Experience with Line Edits by Katie Ganshert at WordServe Water Cooler (about the pain and benefit of a good editor)

Word, Glorious Word! By MariLavell at A Mari Heart (about the Word from beginning to end)

Hope these posts bless you (including mine above at the Barn Door!). Enjoy the wisdom!

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Monday Manna (Living By Grace) for Sept. 12 - New Verse

2011-09-08T08:30:00.000-04:00

Not that I desire your gifts; what I desire is that more be credited to your account. Philippians 4:17

This Monday is also the "grand opening" of Living By Grace, a Facebook community I shared a bit about in the post just before this - and my thoughts on this verse will be the focus of our first "official" discussion. Hope you'll check out the post (click here) for more information, AND the Living By Grace FB community.

Looking forward to your throughts - on your blogs AND at LbG! See you Monday!

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Introducing: Living By Grace

2011-09-08T06:00:00.014-04:00

I know I'm not the only one who at least likes Facebook (and yeah, I realize that some folks don't - but gimme a listen anyway, eh?). And many of you love it. Well, I want to tell you about an exciting new venture that I'm going to be involved in over there, starting this coming Monday.

Living by Grace is a Facebook faith community where believers, seekers, and inquiring minds can pop in and out for a snippet of truth and a friendly chat. Each week, five other authors and I will post links to inspiring, challenging, or thought provoking articles which will serve as discussion launchers. It’s a time to connect and be renewed and we invite you to join us.

Who will be involved? Several of my old and new favorite bloggers and friends. Some you'll recognize - some you won't. But you'll love every one of them! (click on their names to go to their blogs)

Maria I. Morgan
Jessica R. Patch

Lynda Schultz

Jennifer Slattery

Patty Wysong

Each of us will be posting a devotional-like post on our blogs on "our day" (Monday through Saturday - I'll be covering Monday, and combining this with Monday Manna) - then we'll link to the post at the Facebook group with a discussion starter. And then we'll, well, discuss :). What a great way to share His Word and build a community, don't you think?

The page is up now: please stop by and "like" it and introduce yourself. The "official" discussion will start Monday, September 12.

So, what do you think? Will you join us? Hope to see you there!

Riding God's Grace Over Rough Roads

Not Lounging About, But...

2011-09-06T06:00:00.002-04:00

I AM away from the computer today on my monthly tech fast. But I will NOT be sitting around twiddling my thumbs.

Not only do my kids start back to school today, but it's the first session of my church's ladies' Bible study for the fall. We're doing a Juanita Purcell study about contentment (and BOY do I need it!). AND, my house is a mess. Hopefully, by the time I'm back, it will be at least A BIT less so. (And..P is for pretty busy - be back for the next letter!)

Enjoy your day - and I'll see you Wednesday!

Riding God's Grace Over Rough Roads

Like Children - Monday Manna

2011-09-05T06:00:00.002-04:00

Watch what God does, and then you do it, like children who learn proper behavior from their parents. Ephesians 5:1 The Message

Looking forward to your thoughts. Mine are below.

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It's amazing to watch as my kids grow up. Sure, they're each developing their own unique personalities, but I see so many ways they are like me and my husband. And these aren't necessarily things we've taught them.

My daughter takes a while to wake up. She's not one to pop out of bed and get dressed. She'd rather lounge around in her PJs. In that way, she's very much like her father.

My son, on the other hand, is a quick riser, and will often stand almost before he wakes up (well, that MIGHT be an exaggeration, but still). He's ready to take on the day quite soon after he opens his eyes. Just like (you guessed it!) his mother.

There are several other ways the kids are like us, but I think you get the idea. Like I said, we didn't teach the kids to be this way - they picked them up perhaps by nature, and perhaps by observation. You could say they "take after" their parents.

And that is exactly what God is asking us to do in this verse. Do what God does. Imitate Him. Mimic His actions. To take after Him. Because we love Him, we read His Word and learn what He is like. And we do it. Just like the kids "take after" us, and do what we do.

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Thanks for reading! Be sure to check out the other posts on the topic below, and link up if you have your own thoughts.

Riding God's Grace Over Rough Roads

Finds for Fridays: September 2

2011-09-02T06:00:00.027-04:00

Finds for Fridays is my way of sharing some of the wonderful blogs posts I read each week. I am currently following close to 100 blogs and at least scan them as much as I can. Each week, I'll note and "set aside" some posts that especially speak to me for whatever reason. And each Friday that I am able, I'll share them with you. I hope you'll stop by and read the posts, and maybe even follow the blogs if you aren't already. A win-win, right?

And here they are!

The Truth Is... By Anna K. Jeffrey at Jewels of Encouragement (about the depth of His love)

God Creates Fruit, I Only Enjoy It by Lynda Schultz at Grains of Sand (about growth and our, and His, role in it)

Novelist or Freelancer?... by Diana Dart at Thistle and That (about using freelancing skills for fiction writing)

3 Ways to Respond to Detours in Life by Jessica R. Patch at her blog (about change and how we should respond)

Hope you'll stop by these blogs, and maybe even follow them. Some wonderful reads!

Riding God's Grace Over Rough Roads

Back To Routine: A Goals/Progress Update

2011-09-01T07:30:00.000-04:00

my girl at the Kalamzoo Air Zoo :)

This has been a good, fun summer. Fairly productive too. And don't get me wrong - it's been good having the kids around(most of the time LOL). But I'm a routine girl, and summer doesn't lend itself to a set schedule - at least not mine.

So, I am looking forward to the kids getting back to school, Bible study starting back up, AWANA, etc. AND, more predictable time to work with fewer interruptions. (School starts in SIX DAYS here)

But how about August, you ask?? Well, here are my goals, straight from last month's post:

Finish fleshing out my 12-step plotting and most of the rest of the "prewriting" stuff and get to writing Handmaiden to a Princess
Write four biblical fiction devotionals for my project with Jennifer Slattery
Send out two more queries for Ailing Body, Nourished Soul
Four blog posts average a week

Well...I made SOME progress on my plotting, but I am NOT done. Handmaiden to a Princess seems to be lower on my list of priorities lately - what I work on when I get the other stuff done. Hoping to move it a bit higher this month.

I managed three biblical fiction devos - though I'm more than halfway done with the fourth - and only two more to go after that! And I got one query-proposal out. The second (a proposal that needs to be sent snail mail) is printed. I'm giving it its last read-through, after which I'll print whatever pages need to be fixed and stick it in the mail - either today or tomorrow (so I'm not putting it on my goal list -cuz it's GONNA be done!). Blog posts? With 17, that's quite close to four (though maybe a TINY bit shy, since this is a 31-day month).

So then - enough looking back. Time to set some goals for September (the month I get my life back?;) )

Finish fleshing out my 12-step plotting and most of the rest of the "prewriting" stuff and get to writing Handmaiden to a Princess (looks familiar, eh??)
Finish my LAST THREE biblical fiction devotionals for my project with Jennifer Slattery.
Four blog posts average a week
Do some serious thinking about changes I may need to make to Ailing Body, Nourished Soul.
Finish a book edit for the dear and lovely Rita Garcia.
Keep up on my new project, starting VERY SOON (stay tuned!! heheh)

So, that sounds like a list for me to tackle! So I guess I'd better get to it, eh?

Thanks for reading - and your support!

Riding God's Grace Over Rough Roads

Monday Manna for September 5 - new verse

2011-09-01T06:00:00.001-04:00

Watch what God does, and then you do it, like children who learn proper behavior from their parents. Ephesians 5:1 The Message

See you back here on Monday. Looking forward to your thoughts!

Riding God's Grace Over Rough Roads

Camouflage?

2011-08-31T08:45:00.000-04:00

I'm visiting at my dear friend Jennifer Slattery's blog today (she's the one I'm working on the tween biblical fiction devo book with) with a post about camouflage. Would love to have you stop by her place -- which is a wonderful blog, by the way - even, and maybe especially (hehe) when I'm not guest posting.

Have a great day!

Riding God's Grace Over Rough Roads